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11.01.2018

30th Birthday Inspiration

Happy November friends!

I can't believe November, and my birthday month (!), is already here!

This week has been a crazy one so I knew I wouldn't have time for a big post and polled y'all on Instagram to see what you'd rather see: Must Have Vests or 30th BDay Inspo.

Birthday Inspiration won with 59% of the vote, so I'm posting that today and will get to vests next week.

November 28 is my 30th birthday and believe it or not I am really excited about turning 30. While I have felt a little old here and there (hello forehead wrinkles!) and went back to a blonder shade during my last hair appointment, perhaps in an effort to cling to my youth, I overall can't wait to be the big 3-0. I've always thought my 30s would be my best decade. Bryce and I are in a great place and have settled into married life, my career is in a place I actually didn't anticipate even reaching before 30, and finally, we have our sweet Millie baby with plans to grow our family even more at some point during my early 30s. So, yeah, 30 is looking good!

Being a milestone birthday, I'm thrilled to report that my mother-in-law is hosting a 30th birthday party for me! I haven't had a true birthday party since my Sweet 16 surprise party, so this should be fun!

In an effort to guide her planning, RoseMarie, my mother-in-law requested some ideas and inspiration and pulling together a Pinterest board for her made me even more excited. I'll share the overall vision with you here.

The theme is a little Kate Spade-ish, with black and white stripes, gold, and varying shades of pink and red. I also decided some zebras needed to be thrown into the mix and lots of bubbly.

Here's a proof of the invitation that hit mailboxes a week or so ago:

It will be a traditional cocktail party with heavy hors d'oeuvres. My mother-in-law even has bought a bunch of ramekins to make my favorite Pasta in the Pink (recipe coming soon) to be passed! 

Those that have been following along for a while, know how much I love the iconic Scalamandre zebras (anyone remember this post from almost 6 years ago?). When thinking of a party, though, zebra print runs the risk of getting tacky really quick. That said, classic Scalamandre cocktail napkins add a subtle and chic pop of zebra, don't you think? 


You can't have a birthday party without cake, and I am loving this one! 


Bubbly and balloons are also a birthday must, and these photos are oh so feminine and chic:


Does a millennial even turn 30 without 
giant gold 3-0 balloons to document it!?

Because gold tinsel makes everything more fun!


Every birthday girl needs a crown right?

I'm pretty sure I need this?

Finally, on the docket, and of top priority for the evening, is my birthday suit...jumpsuit, that is! 


I scored this jumpsuit on mega sale a couple of weeks ago! It's price has since been marked up a bit, but it's still heavily discounted, and also available at less of a discount, but in more sizes here. If you do order, know it runs small! I am a typically a 4, sometimes 6, and the 6 was a bit more snug than I'd like. I've exchanged an am waiting for the 8 to arrive and am really hoping it fits nicely. 

See the full Pinterest board, including many other swoon-worthy cakes and fun details, here.

So what do you think? 

Any details I'm missing or recommendations?

How do you celebrate milestone birthdays?

Have a great day first day of November!

5.03.2016

Defining My Niche

Happy Tuesday, readers!

I appreciate your patience during my blog hiatus last week. I had hoped to schedule some posts ahead of time during my absence at the Southern C Summit, but those plans fell to the wayside as I juggled preparing for the conference, and also preparing to miss a week of work.

Those of you that follow along on Instagram, saw that the conference was an amazing time. I'm still ruminating over all the information that was presented and the many people I met. I'm also enjoying some time to unwind after what was a whirlwind week. I've gotten as far as unpacking my dirty clothes and enjoying some Goo Goo Clusters from my swag bag. I have yet to look through the many business cards I collected over the week or to download the slew of pictures I took. I'll get there.

I eventually plan to do a series of posts, highlighting the many adventures I had during my trip, but first I thought I would spend some time here writing and reflecting on a theme I heard throughout the Summit's sessions: "Be niche."

A message that was relayed by several different presenters in several different ways, was to find your niche...that one thing you are most passionate about or most an expert on...and focus on it. It left me thinking "Do I have a niche? And if so, what is it?"


Now before I go further, I will share that much of the conference focused on small business owners and career bloggers. I am neither. I started my blog more than 5 years ago purely as a hobby, and intend to keep it that way. I do enjoy making a little bit of money on the side and having the opportunity to partner with brands from time to time; but at the end of the day this blog is my hobby and my creative space. Because of that, I don't think I need to feel pressured to "be  niche." I love that this blog is my blog--a lifestyle blog where I post about anything and everything I want, regardless of whether it converts into likes, pageviews, or comments. On the other hand, though, I'm human, competitive, and a perfectionist and certainly feel motivated on some level by those stats. 

Despite recognizing that I don't have to fit myself into a niche, I still find myself pondering and questioning it. Can "lifestyle" be a niche? When asked what I blogged about during the conference, I continually answered "I'm truly a lifestyle blogger and post about whatever I want. I tend to write about fashion, interiors, cooking, books, and then just my day to day life." "Is that too broad?" I wondered. 

At lunch on Thursday, after a morning of sessions where "niche" came up continuously, my table engaged in a great conversation about blogging as a career versus hobby, defining your audience (whether it be as a blogger or creative small business owner), and the motivations that drive and inspire us all. When Haley of Hermosa Jewelry commented that her customer base and audience includes both teens and grandmothers, it all clicked for me. I shared that defining your audience can't always be driven and honed down to facts and figures such as "women in their late-20s to mid-30s." An audience can also be a feeling or a type. In that moment I felt like I discovered my niche!

I realized that the blog world I entered 5 years ago was not one of affiliate links, professional photography, or branding: It was a community. And YES, wholeheartedly, my niche, can be lifestyle. It can include an array of posts that might not always be connected. Even though I don't post about just one topic, I'd bet that you, my readers, know what to expect when you decide to click over to Alexandra Bee Blog. I hope that you expect to find a fellow woman who is real. I hope that when you stop by, you feel like you're sitting down to chat with a close friend. I hope you see that like you, I'm just trying to figure this whole womanhood thing out...career, domesticity, relationships, adulthood, healthy living, identity, and more.

My favorite blogs are the real ones. The bloggers that bare all from time to time, and make me realize none of us have it all together. The bloggers (and readers) that have been by my side over the last 5 years, through the good times and bad.

So now, if you've made it this far. I want to hear what you think. How would you describe Alexandra Bee Blog to someone? If you're a blogger, in what ways would you define your niche?

I love learning from you.

Have a great day!
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2.15.2016

Day in the Life

Happy Monday, friends!

Did y'all have a good Valentine's Day weekend? Ours was so fun and I'm enjoying having the President's Day holiday as an extra day to recoup!

One of my favorite types of posts when reading other blogs, is a day in the life post. Natalie does these from time to time, as well as some other bloggers and it's fun to get a peak into the routines of others...I think the mundane, ordinary parts of our life can sometimes be the most special and it's fun to see what happens in a blogger's life outside of those "blog-worthy" moments and events.

That being said, last Wednesday I did my best to snap photos throughout the day to put one of these posts together. So here goes!

7:15 am
alarm #1 goes off


Does anyone else set multiple alarms each morning? I usually have 3, the first being 45 minutes before I plan to get out of bed. It's my way of attempting to trick myself into thinking I have time to sleep in. I always take a quick look at email during this time, to make sure nothing pressing has come in over night. When Bryce is home, the bed is more cozy and I have a much harder time motivating myself to get up and moving. On this particular morning, you can see I stay in bed a whole half hour longer than planned! Bryce was heading out of town that day, so I couldn't resist some extra time with him. I also knew I'd be working from 7:30 am- 8:30 pm the following day due to an early morning meeting and after work event, so I don't feel guilty taking a bit of extra time.

9:00ish am
head out the door for work


I make it out the door for work a little after 9:00 am-- morning cereal in hand (I've taken my breakfast to go each morning since college). It's a beautiful sunny day, but oh so cold and even snowed some over night! I am in the Valentine's Day spirit wearing pink for probably the 3rd time in the last week. I bought this favorite Elsa a few years ago during the Lilly After Party Sale, but they have the same color again this season here! I am wearing an extra small, for reference.


9:20 am
settling in at work


Luckily my office is only about 5 minutes from home. By about 9:20 am, I have finished my cereal, said my good mornings, and reviewed emails. Some donations have come in that I was not expecting (always a positive to have surprise donations), so I do a little digging in our system to take a closer look at the account before sending a follow-up email to my workplace contact for that account.

10:30 am
event prep


Tomorrow night we have an appreciation event for the volunteers that help us facilitate and run the fundraising campaigns within their workplace. We have selected a classic superhero theme for the event and are giving away treat bags of M&Ms as favors. I have been assisting my colleague that manages the event and help her to resize and print these thank you tags she downloaded on Etsy. 

12:00 pm
lunch & learn session

Today we are lucky to have lunch provided as we have a special guest speaker! To read more about the specifics of my job, you can read this post, but in short, we work to improve our local community through grant-making in the areas of education, income, and health. During our new grant cycle, we noticed a trend across all of these areas, and that trend was the presence of violence. In each of our focus areas, we are funding programs to combat the effects of violence and trauma. The speaker today was talking about the public health consequences of ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences) and how through trauma-informed care we can begin to build resilience in our kids. Her session was absolutely amazing and inspiring, and the entire time, I was thinking of former students and thought "Why isn't this required professional development for teachers?"


1:30 pm
more event prep

I've gotten a response from my follow-up email this morning regarding the surprise donations, so I finish the "paperwork" side of things and submit the donation for processing. My co-worker Joanne helps me start cutting the thank you tags out. We tag team the job. She cuts them into strips on the paper cutter and then I cut the strips and punch holes in the tags so we can tie them to the treat bags. 

A little after 2:00, Joanne and I are grabbed for an impromptu meeting about our new website. Our organization launched a new website in December and we both represented our department. There is a meeting Friday morning for all staff to share feedback, and we are asked to attend a brief meeting with the committee to get thoughts together and prepare for Friday. The "quick meeting" ends up lasting more than an hour. It's interesting to see the different viewpoints about the functionality and purpose of the site according to the different "hats" those of us wear within the organization. 

I also realize this is my last real night to prep for my Valentine Making Party on Friday night, since I probably won't make it home until after the appreciation event, close to 9 pm the following night, so I cancel my 5:30 barre class. The grocery store is calling (ugggh).

3:30 pm
prep for Thursday's meetings


Our biggest corporate campaign of the Spring officially launches today, February 15, so the calendar is full of meetings and events across the company's many locations in our area. On Thursday, the downtown location is hosting 3 meetings and I am speaking at each. Each meeting will have around 50 attendees, so I grab brochures and marketing materials to take for the audience. I have to be there at 7:30 am, so I won't be coming to the office beforehand, and need to take materials with me when I leave. I also tweak my speech and spend some time reading over it. Most of our campaigns run between September and December, so I haven't spoken to a crowd in about 2 months and want to avoid coming across as rusty!

4:45 pm
grocery shopping

Those that know me, know how much I loathe grocery shopping. It seems like such a time suck, and you never get out without at least dropping $50...I also really miss Ukrop's. Those that know Richmond will likely agree with me. Ukrop's was a locally owned grocery store chain that was the best. When I was in college Giant/Martin's bought them, and it just hasn't been the same ever since. Tulips are a must on the list for my party. I also get the fixings for mac & cheese bites, mini chicken & waffles, strawberry cupcakes, and champagne punch. I want to get a pre-made veggie tray, but of course they don't have one....again, I miss Ukrop's!

5:30 pm
unload groceries & make dinner


I get home and start working on unloading groceries. Whenever I have big housework tasks ahead, I struggle to remain focused. I pull out the tulips and immediately start arranging them before unloading the rest of the groceries, next I start unloading the dishwasher and pulling out what I need to make dinner, only to remember I want to wash the hand towels in the powder room, so I stop what I'm doing and start a load of laundry...you catch my drift. 


Bryce isn't the biggest fan of zoodles and we have zucchini that needs to be eaten, so I whip up a quick zoodles shrimp scampi with roasted tomatoes. It is delicious, but as I'm eating, I think "Why didn't you just microwave the leftovers in the fridge?" Now I have additional kitchen clean up on top of party prep. Ahhh...I have a big night ahead, and really just want to sit down and watch the latest episode of The Bachelor On Demand.

7:00 pm
cleaning & party prep


I decide that next on the party prep agenda, is getting the kitchen set-up. I need a food and drink station, and also somewhere to set out some candy and my fun cocktail napkins. First up, though, is cleaning the countertops. I'm not a fan of our granite. It is black with flecks of browns and tans, and never seems to look clean. Over the weekend we came across this Be's Wax Furniture Polish which is supposedly amazing and works on all surfaces. I decide to give it a try. After struggling to open the dern can, and thinking I've broken the spray lever, I eventually clean the granite and am delighted! Highly recommend this product! The granite actually looks clean and shiny! Yippee! Am I getting old if these are the things that excite me?


I start to get an idea of how I want to set things up! I play with how to set up the little kitchen table, wanting that space to look extra cutesy, and ultimately decide to put the plates and cups with the punch bowl in another corner of the kitchen. 



8:30 pm
crafting prep

My co-worker Joanne was kind enough to bring me a bunch of her crafting supplies as a contribution to the party. I pull out my supplies and go through hers and start setting the dining room table up with supplies. Around 9:00 Bryce calls and I tell him I'm almost done for the night. By now, I've given up on watching The Bachelor.

9:30 pm
pinterest search for inspiration poster

I think I'm finally done, only to remember I want to make a poster full of Valentine inspiration. Why do things like this always take longer than expected? I get on the black hole that is Pinterest and start saving photos to print for my poster. I print the photos, but decide that cutting can wait.


10:45 pm
bedtime...finally


I make my way upstairs and am happy to see that Bryce made the bed before leaving town this morning! Yes...I am 27 and still sleep with a stuffed bunny named Easteregg. Often Bryce will pose him when he makes the bed. Tonight was a simple pose...other times I've come up to find Easteregg reading a book or wearing my sunglasses.


I turn down the bed, propping up pillows all around me, call Bryce to say good night and attempt to read without falling asleep. Lights are out by 11:15, as I have to be downtown by 7:30 in the morning!

 So there you have it, a day in my life!

How is your routine similar to mine? Different?

Have a great day!
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7.24.2015

Peach Tea Monograms GIVEAWAY!

Happy Friday readers!

This week was a busy one, but seemed to drag by for me.

Thanks for all your sweet comments last week. I am slowly, but surely getting through the emails that I have let pile up this summer!

I am excited today to be hosting a giveaway that has been in the works for quite some time with Peach Tea Monograms! Mother-Daughter Duo, Chloe and Lisa, who just so happen to both be teachers, reached out to me a few months ago with hopes of collaborating. Chloe has been a long time blog reader and after checking out their Etsy page, I was happy to have the opportunity to work with them.

They are giving away a monogrammed mason jar tumbler to one lucky reader! Those of you who follow along on Instagram will recognize mine below:


Not only is the tumbler cute, but it is also insulated, which has been great this summer! I take it with me on the go and have especially been using it a lot at the pool and river! 

With lots of decal and color options, you are sure to find a personalization choice you love!

The giveaway will run through midnight, next Friday, July 31st and the winner will be announced later that day. Enter using the Rafflecopter widget below!



How do you stay cool and hydrated in the summertime?

Have you shopped Peach Tea Monograms before?

Have a great weekend!

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9.22.2014

Snail Mail

Happy Monday readers!

Good weekend?

Ours was a good mix of work and play, however, as always, it went by too fast!

Those of you who follow along on Instagram, saw on Friday that I bought some cards to send some snail mail!


I was at Target, and couldn't resist the urge to check out the card section.  I ended up picking cards for three special people.  It was so fun to find just the right card and made me realize I really need to make it a goal to do a better job of sending snail mail.  It's so exciting to receive a sweet card in the mail, so I'd love to spread some joy to friends through the mail!

I've done some searching online and have found some great sources for fun cards!

The first is no newbie on the blog, Hattan Home!  I love just about everything on this site, and Lindsay's selection of cards is just as cute as the rest of the goodies she sells!




I discovered the next two sites through Erin's blog when she shared her sources for Valentine's way back in February!

The first site is Sugar Paper!



And these two from Sugar Paper are perfect note sets to have on hand:



 Paperless Post is next on the list.  Did you realize they have tons of cards that can be both digital and printed?




And last, but certainly, not least: It is always important to have monogrammed stationery on hand for any and every kind of note you might ever need to send!

I have this fun set from Nico & Lala and love it:


I also have this classic embossed set from The Stationery Studio:


Do you send snail mail?

What are you favorite places to find cute cards?

Have a great day!

8.08.2014

Daydreaming

Happy Friday readers!

It has been a wonderful week in Orlando...just what the doctor ordered after a particularly tough few weeks.  I am ready and happy to make it home today and to celebrate my dad's 55th birthday tomorrow (his actual birthday was yesterday)!

Today I am sharing some interiors that are particularly dreamy to me.  I could spend all day every day flipping through design mags or scrolling through Pinterest looking at images like these.  I try not to overly share them on here, though, because, like me, most of y'all go to Pinterest for that.  Every now and then however, it's nice to let the pictures do most of the talking and to just enjoy looking at pretty things!  Here are some of my recent faves:

I like spaces that are eclectic...


I like spaces that are punchy...


I like spaces that are full of lots of different patterns...


I like spaces that are calm and clean...


I like spaces that are bright and livable...


I like spaces that feel personal...


I like spaces that are both traditional and modern...


I like spaces that inspire creativity...


And apparently, I like spaces that are blue and green...  

I just noticed that trend amongst all these favorites and think they are the perfect colors to fill a home!

What design trends are you loving right now?

What types of pretty images fill your daydreams?

Have a great weekend!