tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15998893207324034002024-03-08T14:02:38.826-05:00Alexandra Bee BlogAlexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comBlogger566125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-30223105635152736812020-12-14T22:07:00.004-05:002020-12-15T10:01:39.915-05:002020 Holiday Gift Guide: LADIES<p> Well, it's official. I made it nearly to the end of 2020 without a single blog post!</p><p>And in true 2020 spirit, my gift guides are way overdue, and guide<b>s</b> should be guide, as this is the only one you're going to get this year.</p><p>Alas, I am still shopping myself, so am guessing some of you are, too, and a sweet follower on Instagram mentioned these provide great inspiration for year-round gifting, as well. I hope they'll be helpful, and maybe you'll even just find a gift for yourself. We all deserve it after the year it's been.</p><p>This is a pared down guide as compared to years past, but I tried to pay particular attention to the moment in time we're in and pick items that would suit it. There are a variety of price points offered, but most items are under $100, and for the splurge items I offer lower priced alternatives in the details below.</p><p>Per usual, many of these links are affiliate links meaning I earn a small commission if you make a purchase after clicking. Also, per usual nearly all of these items are ones I can personally vouch for, as I have and love them myself.</p><p>If you're still struggling with shopping for the men in your life, I highly recommend checking out my Gents guides from the last couple years <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2019/11/2019-holiday-gift-guide-gents.html">here</a> and <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2018/11/2018-holiday-gift-guide-gents.html">here</a>. Some of the links may be invalid now, but many are still active and I promise you'll get some inspiration.</p><p>So without further adieu, my ladies gift guide! Links and detailed descriptions below the collage.</p><p>Happy shopping!</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgy3OZ6L1ZZEIKbH-NY-a8Vm8jCOxSmwzJfPnHIs8VQqwT4LG-tuD_q15cTW8NyTMrZMaANkoZtH9UspUCGsu3IAVcfLrAcP0IrBtBqADiDoLLqyOYzq8rYfTypsX6MUx5Gb8SoDNJdiThR/s592/2020+LADIES+GIFT+GUIDE.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="592" data-original-width="454" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgy3OZ6L1ZZEIKbH-NY-a8Vm8jCOxSmwzJfPnHIs8VQqwT4LG-tuD_q15cTW8NyTMrZMaANkoZtH9UspUCGsu3IAVcfLrAcP0IrBtBqADiDoLLqyOYzq8rYfTypsX6MUx5Gb8SoDNJdiThR/w490-h640/2020+LADIES+GIFT+GUIDE.png" width="490" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+1jM_Bl6uH7ro2kAtdRDH3Q">leather headband</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+VDLGjvqO1nomw6-xqu4_0Q">coin pendant</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+Za79OMtbK8WK-VKY28znsA">petal placemat</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+TXc9f4pan7p96NqisdRF3A">butterfly art</a> /</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+0rzMoWdRlYxpQOkCSr3_uQ">brightening face oil</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+ZH1hTsbS5gz2-YBgU9WiEw">volumizing mascara</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+4i1ZkWRL6f9woX6Y5sNPPw">lengthening mascara</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+Fv6O6W3npW322IhsSTyr7w">pearl studs</a> /</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+o9CEjcF3StzIxTT5w0T2LA">scalloped napkins</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+jqyD0DGgpT1nDbuqHL_r7g">candle</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+5Ur8K7AmwIww39xmZT5D1g">pajamas</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+pVlP4W6fOBq-ROZIZCvUlA">personalized keychain</a> / <a href="https://estellecoloredglass.com/collections/glassware/products/estelle-colored-wine-stemware-set-of-2-coral-peach-pink">blush wine glass pair</a> / <a href="https://www.thestationerystudio.com/product/embossed-monogram-wardrobe-p2820.html?pCat=731">stationery suite</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+_pbiT27NAKXN1KlihxCD1A">crescent dish</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+jpkwgOBuBXXPYrvBfWY7jA">fleece jacket</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+sLIhLcBQNDP5z-ddgHYcKw">tortoise glass</a> / <a href="https://www.biscuit-home.com/collections/the-ornament-edit/products/butter-ornament">butter ornament</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+I1vZ-IrtM0MJI7EenQFaRg">wedge sneaker</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+X295v5CXmTDIzmWIEnkR5A">pink bracelet</a> /</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+nGcmEQsSy51tzPM5TUnU6Q">hand cream</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+XbxZYeQS38HvjaeVU5JbNg">personalized journal</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+VItOsJQwGL9tVR5Pvs43Tg">slippers</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+mBI10XgCFT9UR7Aldc3Lqg">rose lip balm</a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+1jM_Bl6uH7ro2kAtdRDH3Q">Leather Headband</a>: Going fast (also <a href="https://rstyle.me/+4PGUNoOwnliNF0c0OChC1Q">here</a> and <a href="https://rstyle.me/+4PGUNoOwnliNF0c0OChC1Q">here</a>) and for good reason! At $65, this is a bit of a splurge for a headband, but would make the perfect gift for a girlfriend or sister. It is my absolute favorite headband, and is great for Zoom meetings when you're hair is just a tad past its prime. If $65 is more than you'd like to spend, find it on sale <a href="https://rstyle.me/+JxM-XGPKDg1vxWdbNhHpdA">here</a> for under $40 in a beautiful plum grey. Also love <a href="https://rstyle.me/+9ez8hXGV_JoyKuEHHHV89g">this similar satin version</a> with great reviews on sale for under $10!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+VDLGjvqO1nomw6-xqu4_0Q">Coin Pendant</a>: At just under $300, this is the priciest item on my guides, but we all deserve a splurge every now and then, right? Bryce surprised me with this pendant earlier in the fall, knowing I had been wanting it a looong time (mentioned it in last year's gift guides, actually) and I wear it nearly every day. I love that it's large size makes a statement, but that it can also be layered with other necklaces. I also love <a href="https://rstyle.me/+GD1nhzPRafv5Lyvus6xAsw">this similar $60 option</a> and have been pleased with the quality of jewelry I own from this line.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+Za79OMtbK8WK-VKY28znsA">Petal Placemat</a>: After swooning over these since Spring, I treated myself to a set for Thanksgiving, which turned out to be just a Thanksgiving for two thanks to COVID. The scallop detail is such a nice touch and these are a great neutral that can elevate any table. A set of 4 would make a great under $50 gift!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+TXc9f4pan7p96NqisdRF3A">Butterfly Art</a>: I've admired this artist's work for a long time now, and really want a pair of these-I just need to decide where in my home I'd like to place them first. There's a variety of color and size options sure to please any lady in your life, including some small sizes under $100. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+0rzMoWdRlYxpQOkCSr3_uQ">Brightening Face Oil</a>: I've raved about BC's <a href="https://rstyle.me/+pgzfj87KDlocV5AOuYa2XQ">Overnight Resurfacing Peel</a> the last couple years in my gift guides and still use that nightly as a holy grail product. This year, I've begun adding their oils to my regimen, as well. I use all three oils (#1 @ morning and #2 and #3 @ night), but if I had to only pick one it would be this #1 Brightening oil. I put it on underneath my moisturizer (<a href="https://rstyle.me/+QvjN7TO18pTDYeLdWalXPQ">here</a>) and SPF primer (<a href="https://rstyle.me/+pdN8drEelPm_4qINEdPRkA">here</a>) and it adds a nice glow to my face and makes my makeup go on so smoothly. Also smells wonderful and is made with all clean ingredients you can trust. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+ZH1hTsbS5gz2-YBgU9WiEw">Volumizing Mascara</a> & <a href="https://rstyle.me/+4i1ZkWRL6f9woX6Y5sNPPw">Lengthening Mascara</a>: I've slowly been trying to make the switch to more clean beauty options and these under $25 clean mascaras are seriously <b>the best </b>mascara I've ever used. I like to wear both, using the volumizing first with lengthening layered on top, but can use each on their own, too. Great stocking stuffer!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+Fv6O6W3npW322IhsSTyr7w">Pearl Studs</a>: These classic pearl studs are so beautiful and under $100. I received mine for Christmas two years ago and wear them multiple times a week. Whenever I wear them on Instagram, you all ask me about them. I wear the large size, and recommend those. Currently for pre-order on the Julie Vos site (they're worth the wait!), but it looks like they may also be available on <a href="https://www.thelampstand.com/julie-vos-penelope-stud-gold-pearl-er502gpl00.html?utm_source=PPC&utm_campaign={campaign_id}&utm_term=&utm_network=g&gclid=CjwKCAiAt9z-BRBCEiwA_bWv-AqtXskXVoM4-vkhIg1VIsp0lXEoMqaiM0rKRr8-49wTRXsdL86HgxoCXJwQAvD_BwE">this site</a> now.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+o9CEjcF3StzIxTT5w0T2LA">Scalloped Napkins</a>: I also ordered a set of these for our Thanksgiving meal and picked a very fall pattern. Had I known our celebration was going to shrink, I would have ordered this pink set instead that would be beautiful for tables year-round. These come from India, so you may have to pay to rush shipping. The seller was wonderful to work with and customized an order for me. I want one of everything!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+jqyD0DGgpT1nDbuqHL_r7g">Candle</a>: I'm incredibly picky about candles. I only like clean, subtle scents (with the exception made for the <a href="https://rstyle.me/+0XxFtibXFtUa7l_yb678hg">Nest Holiday</a> candle this time of year), and this one smells lovely. In fact, Bryce says it's the best smelling candle we've ever had. This small size would make a great stocking stuffer or teacher gift.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+5Ur8K7AmwIww39xmZT5D1g">Pajamas</a>: I believe the best gifts are those that someone would want and love but not buy oneself and Lake Pajamas totally fit that bill. I bought my first set on major sale and while I love them, I don't think I'd pay full price if shopping for myself. I was, however, lucky enough to receive a second set as a Christmas gift last year and wouldn't mind continuing to grow my collection. Not to mention, if there's ever a time for luxe pajamas, it's now while we're all at home spending a lot more time in our pajamas. Many say to size up in these, but I've found them to be true to size and take my usual small, though I do stretch them out a bit while they're still wet before putting in the dryer. If you're on the fence about sizing for yourself or a gift recipient, I'd say to size up, though, as there's never any harm in a looser, comfier pair of pajamas. Oh, and if you or your recipient are on the shorter side (I'm 5'3), I'd recommend getting the cropped if ordering a long pair. Also have a couple sets of <a href="https://rstyle.me/+lHcvcy1dpBw8HAnWbwN6PQ">these</a> at a lower price point and wear them all the time.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+pVlP4W6fOBq-ROZIZCvUlA">Personalized Keychain</a>: You'd never guess this personalized keychain was under $15! I love mine and think it would make an excellent stocking stuffer, or sweet 16 gift for a girl getting her driver's license. The strap is big enough to wear on your wrist for hands free shopping and errands. Do check the shipping options if purchasing for Christmas as this comes from out of the country. <a href="https://rstyle.me/+PGXxQrvgbZ5gIFU3Qo9_BA">This</a> similar option is more expensive, but equally chic and sure to arrive before Christmas if you order soon!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://estellecoloredglass.com/collections/glassware/products/estelle-colored-wine-stemware-set-of-2-coral-peach-pink">Blush Wine Glass Pair</a>: These are a splurge, but it's a small woman-owned business with a story that will make you want to support her! Also <a href="https://estellecoloredglass.com/collections/rocks-glasses/products/estelle-colored-rocks-glass-set-of-2-amber-smoke">love these amber smoke rocks</a> glasses for the men in your life. If the price is too steep, especially if you're like me and have a preponderance for breaking glasses (as Bryce reminded me as I sent him these as a Christmas gift idea), check out <a href="https://rstyle.me/+qEywiR-EV2J5vbyVaSmRCw">these</a> similar blush wine glasses that won't break the bank, or your heart if you break one.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://www.thestationerystudio.com/product/embossed-monogram-wardrobe-p2820.html?pCat=731">Stationery Suite</a>: This stationery suite is such a steal at under $50! I have it and can attest to the quality and timeless design. It comes with 25 each of embossed monogrammed flat cards, folded notecards, and small folded enclosure cards (which I use the most). </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+_pbiT27NAKXN1KlihxCD1A">Crescent Dish</a>: This crescent dish is perfect for the grandmillennial in your life. While technically a salad plate, I'm dying for one myself as a jewelry and trinket dish. A perfect piece to bring a little luxury and poise into your everyday.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+jpkwgOBuBXXPYrvBfWY7jA">Fleece Jacket</a>: Currently more than 50% off, but going fast! I'd been on the hunt for an elevated, more grown up fleece since last fall and was thrilled when I found this one! It is so chic and looks cute with athleisure and also jeans and boots. True to size with a roomy fit. I took my normal small and can comfortably wear it over a chunky sweater or puffy vest.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+sLIhLcBQNDP5z-ddgHYcKw">Tortoise Glass</a>: A set of tortoise glasses have been on my own wish list for quite some time and I'm crossing my fingers and toes I may get them under the Christmas tree this year. What I love about these is that they could also double as vases. How pretty would a line of them be with flowers down a table? Currently on backorder, but worth the wait, and at $10.95 each you can cater the size of the set you gift to your budget.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://www.biscuit-home.com/collections/the-ornament-edit/products/butter-ornament">Butter Ornament</a>: I can't resist including a Christmas ornament in the guides each year, and this year butter felt apropos, especially for those of you who have done as much quarantine baking as I have. I opted to link it through Biscuit Home to shop small, where I had a blast browsing ornaments at their flagship when in Houston last December. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+I1vZ-IrtM0MJI7EenQFaRg">Wedge Sneaker</a>: At under $40 these wedge sneakers are perfect for these days when the only outings on our social calendars are outings to the grocery store. Super comfortable, and I'd say they run slightly large. I am a small size 8 and was able to fit in both the 7.5 and 8, but opted for the 8 in case I want to wear them with socks. Also, don't be fooled by the Out of Stock...the link directs you to Size 5, but once you click the dropdown, you'll see they're still in stock in nearly every size.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+X295v5CXmTDIzmWIEnkR5A">Pink Bracelet</a>: Currently on sale for just $16, and also comes in two other colorways including a tortoise and turquoise I also love. I ordered a handful of these to gift myself and others this season.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+nGcmEQsSy51tzPM5TUnU6Q">Hand Cream</a>: This $6 drugstore hand cream might be the discovery of the season! My hands get so incredibly dry this time of year, and I found this in our skincare basket under the sink after running out of the tried and true (and much more expensive) <a href="https://rstyle.me/+lCJQq0ckY0J7GnvH6AK1Pw">L'Occitane hand cream</a> I've used for years. Bryce must have bought it at some point, and I grabbed it to tide me over until replacing my L'Occitane. Well friends, that won't be happening! This stuff is amazing! My hands are softer than ever! I will say it is very thick, though, so I only put it on at bedtime. Perfect stocking stuffer, or would be cute paired with a fun pair of gloves as a teacher or mail carrier gift. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+XbxZYeQS38HvjaeVU5JbNg">Personalized Journal</a>: I ordered one of these journals for myself on my birthday and can't wait for it to arrive. Everything on this website is gorgeous, and I love that in addition to classic leather journals with gold foil monograms, they have styles like this one that are just a bit whimsy. I will note that this is coming from England and shipping was pricy, and may be even more so if you're trying to rush it to arrive by Christmas.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+VItOsJQwGL9tVR5Pvs43Tg">Slippers</a>: I believe these have been on my gift guides every single year since my first ever gift guides in 2013. They're water resistant and have a great rubber sole that makes them sturdy enough to wear outside...and they just might be the one Christmas gift I've given my mom (who is incredibly hard to shop for) that has knocked it out of the park. You also can't go wrong with <a href="https://rstyle.me/+Kq5vEp6TmkyqkRByHlOcjw">these</a> forever classics or <a href="https://rstyle.me/+v5pCixIePxAoJf0vYtSoPw">this</a> monogrammed option under $40.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+mBI10XgCFT9UR7Aldc3Lqg">Rose Lip Balm</a>: This lip balm has also been featured nearly every year on my guides. I've been using it now for 12 years and can't go to sleep without it on my lips, and probably apply it at least 4 or 5 other times throughout the day. I always have a <a href="https://rstyle.me/+kSjCrBPsdnoLz5x_LH8u9Q">jar</a> at my bedside, and like the tube option for my purse to keep germs at bay. Great stocking stuffer...and my dad actually loves too!</div>Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-9887730195511419582019-12-18T09:32:00.000-05:002019-12-18T09:32:28.538-05:002019 Last Minute Prime Gift Guide<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
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Everything in this guide is on Amazon Prime and everything except the Ember Smart Mug is under $50! Do be sure to check on your sizing and color options. I did my best to pick items that were widely available and would deliver in plenty of time for Christmas, but a few items are only available for pre-Christmas delivery in certain colors. Similar to my other guides (Ladies <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2019/11/2019-holiday-gift-guide-ladies.html">here</a> and Gents <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2019/11/2019-holiday-gift-guide-gents.html">here</a>), there are more details, similar options linked, etc below the collage. Also, if in need of more inspiration, check out <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2018/12/last-minute-prime-gift-guide.html">last year's Last Minute Prime Gift Guide</a>, as many of those items are still available!</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+OcD6mQ4vWZSnWTX7fpErHQ">rummikub</a> / </b><b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+ExFP3wv6aBzHUVnK8rBjqQ">nest holiday votive</a> / </b><b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+evbHf_-eHODYSHyJS2L2ig">tech gloves</a> / </b><b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+mbr3RIY0JvpJJUXa3qyCkQ">thermos</a> / </b><b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+pSm4w6YO5gRqKBIFHobUlA">makeup pouch</a> </b>/ <b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+WF4ZQiG87ceLZ-n_3ESJHQ">hand cream</a></b></div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/+uxWzrE3Pd5Sr-yQu8NXoyQ" style="font-weight: bold;">Blue Light Glasses</a>: just over $20!; I've been dying to order these for myself, as prioritizing and getting ample sleep is my biggest "wellness" challenge; these came recommended by a follower when I talked about blue light glasses on Stories; they're cute, affordable, and have great reviews; could be great stocking stuffer<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+mSDoKcQHMe2t47XdD_tGXw" style="font-weight: bold;">Waterproof Speaker</a>: under $40!; if you're not following <a href="https://www.instagram.com/things.i.bought.and.liked/?hl=en">Things I Bought and Liked</a>, you should be; she recommended this waterproof speaker and I was sold- who doesn't love to jam out and sing in the shower?<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+igInuddo8HAUlJ6zgLHOSg" style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">One Line A Day</a>: under $12; y'all have expressed an interest in gifts for in-laws and I think this would make a great gift for a mom or mother-in-law; the concept is simple- it has a page for every day of the year and on each page there are spaces for that day over 5 consecutive years - great opportunity to reflect and see growth over time or trends in how you're feeling at different times of year<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+a79bMl4z3IzJs3ov7NXY8w" style="font-weight: bold;">Bee Ornament</a>: couldn't resist featuring this beautiful bee ornament, as I am Alexandra Bee;<b> </b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+YIOCocre_SIu6YaQHzmSAA">Old World Christmas</a> has an array of stunning, and sometimes even funny, ornaments though sure to please everyone in your life<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+eZuv8EV5B4QtKbbKr3Z_Tw" style="font-weight: bold;">Holiday Earrings</a>: under $10!; I've been dying for some festive earrings this season and these definitely fit the bill; also love this<b> </b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+qdV2EQdPzAOp11UsE9KB0w">six pack</a> of similar studs for just $10.99 that you could purchase and split up to gift to multiple friends, siblings, aunts and cousins, etc<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+HH5K-F30KuE7K-P1wgC3sw" style="font-weight: bold;">Borsari Salt</a>: under $10!; this salt has changed our cooking game - we originally had it on steak at a friends and immediately went to Whole Foods to buy some of our own; we now put it on everything from meat to roasted veggies and it is a game changer; another great stocking stuffer<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+VjKgkUxlBpNN5mQ-qA6l0w" style="font-weight: bold;">Sugar Lip Treatment</a>: this lip treatment is on the pricier side, but <i><b>so</b></i> decadent; it leaves lips feeling ultra moisturized and also has a slight tint for some color<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+9axbHWTp6TRoQMdeNZklUA" style="font-weight: bold;">Ember Smart Mug</a>: I never make it through a mug of tea or hot chocolate before it gets cold, so I think this smart mug that keeps drinks heated to your exact temperature specifications is genius; at a much lower price point, this<b> </b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+17SwAWWHd5yVTrh4or1iDg">Yeti mug</a> would also make a great gift for the coffee lover in your life and is sure to keep drinks hot for a while<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+1EkADFQe5rpWF9vS3POVNw" style="font-weight: bold;">Ice Roller</a>: just over $20; another one to follow is <a href="https://www.instagram.com/being_bridget/?hl=en">Being Bridget</a> and she raves about this ice roller to depuff before events; it has 4.7/5 stars based on 2,639 ratings and I'm dying to try it!<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+4LkD8Qy6YLkILTjxz08UBg" style="font-weight: bold;">Coconut Snacks</a>: under $20 for a 3-pack you can divvy up; everyone needs some tasty treats in their stocking; I've become hooked on these organic coconut snacks this year; they remind me so much of Samoa Girl Scout cookies, but come with a lot less guilt!<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+3RCEt1DSW9LR3Iq7JoMwJg" style="font-weight: bold;">Pearl Tray</a>: just over $40; y'all love Beatriz Ball as much as me and I love this small tray from their giftables line that would be fabulous as a trinket tray; also check out the <a href="https://rstyle.me/+881FK_PzfpeTFSNdS3KGqQ">giftable oyster</a> also under $50<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+lNZZvsdhIsuQGgPTg-FMig" style="font-weight: bold;">Tortoise Hair Clip</a>: under $10; you can never have enough hair clips like these and I go gaga for anything tortoise; rated 4.9/5 stars based on nearly 50 ratings; great stocking stuffer<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+fZy9-cZOUHD6dAiPZhLDUA" style="font-weight: bold;">Wine Chilling Wands</a>: under $30!; we received these as a wedding gift and love them; you keep them in the freezer and can use them to perfectly chill room temperature wine; have used them for other drinks, as well and even to de-puff thanks to blogger Being Bridget's recommendation (noticed Amazon says that they're frequently purchased together with the ice roller above, likely due to Bridget's recommendation, haha!)<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+jB7KMwUnFGsTKyUJ9KKKow" style="font-weight: bold;">Tie Back Sweatshirt</a>: under $30; I ordered this in cream and live in it and love it so much that I ordered another in black when preparing these guides last night; wear it with workout clothes and also with jeans and booties; many friends have purchased at my recommendation and equally love it, including a pregnant friend who says it's perfect for a bump when sized up one; true to size with a comfy fit<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+PG5Rmfjvz7yJV_cSGVJYjQ" style="font-weight: bold;">Waffle Maker</a>: currently 60% off and under $50; we received this waffle maker as a wedding gift and love it (just made chocolate chip waffles on Sunday); I think this could be a great in-laws gift, especially if you're in-laws are grandparents as it would be a fun activity with kids<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+xQ09LxWoOo024x5C_OT9ww">Living Proof Duo</a> & <a href="https://rstyle.me/+9qaGQ8EbxgNfRmH3MYEwEg">Chic Shower Cap</a>: </b>I'd bundle these together and the total would come to about $65; I'm not exaggerating when I say that Living Proof Dry Shampoo has changed my life; time saved not having to wash my hair daily is huge; I've tried several dry shampoos and hands down this is the best and the volume boost spray is equally amazing; would be a perfect gift for your sister of bestie paired with a chic shower cap inspired by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mrssouthernsocial/">Mrs. Southern Social</a> (also love the striped and abstract floral caps <a href="https://rstyle.me/+MYQ8gFybJk1jTIwzcuFAyQ">here</a> and <a href="https://rstyle.me/+MYQ8gFybJk1jTIwzcuFAyQ">here</a>)<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+jmqJ1ZSjFF6muKbwGuX7cA" style="font-weight: bold;">Salad Dressing Shaker</a>: under $10; I've shared on Stories my tips for homemade dressing (we never buy premade dressing!) and this shaker gets used multiple times a week in our house; would make a great stocking stuffer or gift bundles with this <i><a href="https://rstyle.me/+69sjAy1QSR1oM7GwT9qybw">Mighty Salads</a> </i>cookbook<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+aqAF9UNu4OpCh9VkQpzNGg" style="font-weight: bold;">Silicon Wine Stoppers</a>: under $10 for a set of 4; these would make a great stocking stuffer as a set or divvied up; we have a handful of similar ones we bought at a vineyard years ago and love them; these have great reviews<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+OcD6mQ4vWZSnWTX7fpErHQ" style="font-weight: bold;">Rummikub</a>: under $12; Bryce and I both grew up playing Rummikub with our families and y'all always ask about it when I post on Stories; would make a great gift for a family<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+ExFP3wv6aBzHUVnK8rBjqQ" style="font-weight: bold;">Nest Holiday Votive</a>: under $20!; when it comes to candles, I'm very picky about scents and rarely like a strong scented candle; this is the one exception and puts me in the perfect spirit; this votive size is affordable and would make the perfect stocking stuffer or gift for a teacher or co-worker<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+evbHf_-eHODYSHyJS2L2ig" style="font-weight: bold;">Tech Gloves</a>: just $10.99; these unisex gloves are touchscreen friendly, come in multiple colors, and are rated 4.5/5 based on 713 ratings; great stocking stuffer<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+mbr3RIY0JvpJJUXa3qyCkQ" style="font-weight: bold;">Thermos</a>: currently 50% off and under $20; Bryce has this thermos and loves it; he uses it to make "special tea" for the duck blind (aka tea spiked with bourbon)<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+pSm4w6YO5gRqKBIFHobUlA" style="font-weight: bold;">Scout Makeup Pouch</a>: under $30; I've been using Scout products since high school and love the fun prints and durability; this makeup pouch is so cute; also, if in need of a teacher gift, this<b> </b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+dAWp5ePwuttUxLQT6zL_IA">Scout Pocket Rocket tote</a> was the exact bag I used as a kindergarten teacher and would be great gifted from a class filled with supplies or some of the teacher's favorite things<br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+WF4ZQiG87ceLZ-n_3ESJHQ" style="font-weight: bold;">Hand Cream</a>: under $30; this hand cream finds its way to my stocking nearly every year; it's a little pricey, but is the best...and if you don't believe me, trust the 1,226 reviewers that give it 4.5/5 stars<br />
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Shew...that's a wrap!<br />
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Hang in there this week!<br />
<br />Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-9823800087659467462019-11-27T23:45:00.000-05:002019-11-28T00:16:29.984-05:002019 Holiday Gift Guide: GENTSHappy Thanksgiving Eve...again!<br />
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I'm so pleased y'all are already enjoying my <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2019/11/2019-holiday-gift-guide-ladies.html">Ladies Gift Guide</a>!<br />
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I did an Insta poll earlier this afternoon to see if the Gents gift guide was worth it and y'all overwhelming voted "Yes please!" to a a guide for all the men in your life. As usual, this is skewed to the Southern Gent, and just like the Ladies guides, most of these items are things Bryce has and loves or wants for himself. In fact, most of the items in this guide were compiled by him for you!<br />
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Many links below are affiliate links meaning I earn a small commission if you click and make a purchase. More details on each item linked below the collage!<br />
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/+USiGM-NIt5JIPrd1jwLSKA">leather catchall</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+Mi6AXBpFdJEzdyOjMKp1EA">head lamp</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+xruT6vxpebYGzNm9uAxNmQ">lip balm</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+rk-cOLTSnQDABMt1KAeJqQ">dot socks</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+B7bFFB78jcF_KpBxVa0W-Q">personalized stationery</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+SW0JBtugV-MQxp1OPRs--g">old south hat</a> /</div>
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<i><a href="https://rstyle.me/+XIZ0ei5dpqC18UeBAg-xBw">South</a></i> / <a href="https://onwardreserve.com/collections/button-downs/products/tabby-classic-fit-performance-button-down">performance button down</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+lBQd4pw7kMXhCbT4txY8cA">torch</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+QykiZBI-exvM3i0c1SZ1fw">almond toffee petites</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+MUYxbysCqgTi78VeR6avJA">nano puff jacket</a> / </div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/+XqP57j9RT0MGkZwQPvI0Kw">needlepoint cuff links</a> / <a href="https://www.monticelloshop.org/monticello-tulip-poplar-letter-opener/">letter opener</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+mE2jW9HIRR3Qs-9Sb0Ozhw">suede loafers</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+-8mnR-sNx-ZrpcToD_CJKw">yeti lowball</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+Iipbl8ktaWxdTcMpbUly8w">camo dopp kit</a> /</div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/+1s4KNOrN-ECzpJ3kfVHiDQ">pheasant lapel pin</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+uRS62357Pv9-zfYk863LdQ">exofficio boxers</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+xMjV6zBQI5IX6Jom5y8UjA">watch</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+QThMpcQj7Rz3mn25yhSurg">democracy coasters</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+abo5RWEiLT-A-9dFW94tCQ">charging carabiner</a> / </div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/+amc4GW06vN9FlZDBe3VnSQ">hot sauce ornament</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+TL9HfhVTa9Yib86CK9MfBQ">garment folder</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+3Ok5V2Im5eLQawRV2CtJcw">waxed tote</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+eR5kRVQ9mE0eRDtIND5bbA">throw blanket</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+bY8U6xS32ZyQ3Ud0QN28mw">pocket saw</a> / <a href="https://www.tecovas.com/products/the-duke?variant=12485524160621">ostrich boots</a> /</div>
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<a href="https://www.jrcigars.com/item/davidoff-winston-churchill-cigars/robusto/DAWSR4.html#start=1">cigar</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+DEQx5xsVUKZfJFQrBSzPOg">shotgun shell belt</a> / <a href="https://kevinscatalog.com/collections/mens-belts/products/canebrake-rattlesnake-belt">rattlesnake belt</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+VpothRfqS15GukRx08okGQ">card bottle opener</a></div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/+USiGM-NIt5JIPrd1jwLSKA" style="font-weight: bold;">Leather Catchall</a><b>: </b>20% off + free shipping with code FRIENDS; Bryce has a similar square version in a dark brown he keeps on his dresser, but I am loving the look of this "baseball leather" and shape and size; also love that the snaps on the corners enable you to flatten it; this catchall can make a collection of items (spare change, collar stays, etc) look tidy</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+Mi6AXBpFdJEzdyOjMKp1EA" style="text-align: center;">Head Lamp</a>: </b>under $40; a favorite in our house - we have a bunch scattered about ready to grab at any moment; Bryce said to be sure to share it's not just for camping - think walking the dog, taking the trash out, grilling at night; this particular one is Bryce's very favorite!</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+xruT6vxpebYGzNm9uAxNmQ">Lip Balm</a>: </b>I gifted Bryce some of this lip balm last year and he loves it so much he recommended I include it on the guides; would make a great stocking stuffer!</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+rk-cOLTSnQDABMt1KAeJqQ">Dot Socks</a>: </b>I gift Bryce socks in his stocking every year and also include them in my gents gift guide every year; these merino wool dotted socks are Bryce's favorite for dress up and I'll likely be choosing these for his stocking this year so he'll have a few fresh pairs; a bit on the pricey side, but sure to please; come in the black shown, plus 3 other colors</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+B7bFFB78jcF_KpBxVa0W-Q">Personalized Stationery</a>: </b>under $30!; Bryce has some custom <a href="https://rstyle.me/+VbFwA9zrDHFv0a4Ei0HNgQ">Crane stationery</a> he was gifted that is so nice, but this stationery I found for the guides is equally handsome and a fraction of the price...plus I'm all for supporting a small American biz; I'm partial to the trout design pictured, but there are tons of other options sure to please any man in your life</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+SW0JBtugV-MQxp1OPRs--g">Old South Hat</a>: </b>under $30; Bryce's recommendation - "Cool hat!"</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+XIZ0ei5dpqC18UeBAg-xBw" style="font-style: italic;">South</a>: </b>under $30; if you follow Southern cuisine at all, you've heard of Sean Brock; he actually trained under Bryce's brother Chef Walter Bundy of <a href="https://www.shagbarkrva.com/">Shagbark</a> here in Richmond and we're big fans; this book is his newest cookbook and shares classic Southern recipes with a spin; if you haven't yet, also check out his first cookbook <i><a href="https://rstyle.me/+5I01urZtQ_xkjiPFXxcrJA">Heritage</a></i></div>
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<b><a href="https://onwardreserve.com/collections/button-downs/products/tabby-classic-fit-performance-button-down">Performance Button Down</a>: </b>I popped into Onward Reserve when in Georgetown last month and had to resist the urge to buy the whole store for Bryce for Christmas; I especially fell in love with these performance button downs that have the tailored look of a nice shirt, but the performance fabric of a fishing shirt; Santa may just have to bring one down the chimney for Bryce; run large - order one size down</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+lBQd4pw7kMXhCbT4txY8cA">Torch</a>: </b>under $50 and the satisfaction that will come using and showing off this torch is priceless; used to light a charcoal grill, one of our best friend's actually commented on Stories that I needed to include this - I mentioned it to Bryce, asking him to send the link, and he said "Oh yeah, Davis and Frank <b>love </b>the torch!" </div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+QykiZBI-exvM3i0c1SZ1fw">Almond Toffee Petites</a>: </b>the way to a man's heart is his stomach, and Bryce recommended these; I've never actually had them, which shows he keeps them all to himself, haha!</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+MUYxbysCqgTi78VeR6avJA">Nano Puff Jacket</a>: </b>Bryce has both this Patagonia puffer and <a href="https://rstyle.me/+TijDSgwl7U9C13He08bT1A">the down version</a> and prefers this one because it's lightweight, but still warm, and the nano puff is water resistant unlike the down; made of recycled materials; compressible and can stow in its own pocket; a little pricey, but quality, quality, quality and brand known for ethics; comes in 10 colors and true to size</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+XqP57j9RT0MGkZwQPvI0Kw">Needlepoint Cuff Links</a>: </b>20% off with code FRIENDS brings them to under $50; for the dapper guy in your life; these personalized black and white cuff links would look <i>so </i>good with a tux!</div>
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<b><a href="https://www.monticelloshop.org/monticello-tulip-poplar-letter-opener/">Letter Opener</a>: </b>under $40; this letter opener is made from the wood of tulip poplars Jefferson planted at Monticello; Bryce loves his!</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+mE2jW9HIRR3Qs-9Sb0Ozhw">Suede Loafers</a>: </b>under $100 and have 105 5-star reviews!; every man should have <u>at least</u> one good pair of loafers or driving mocs; these come in 6 colors and I also love the brown <a href="https://rstyle.me/+PndMcBtcKz09qt6pfWAJ2g">here</a> on sale for just $60; Bryce has <a href="https://rstyle.me/+Zg0_H7jK6zM6HTKflnUuJg">these crocodile ones</a> I included in my guides last year; on sale for under $100; and, if you really want to spoil your man, I'd get <a href="https://rstyle.me/+e2Lsdpo1LdFQpeugPrx4IA">these </a>splurge suede driving mocs</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+-8mnR-sNx-ZrpcToD_CJKw">Yeti Lowball</a>: </b>just $15 with code BRIGHT; Yeti products really are the best; we have a few of the tumblers and I'm continually amazed by just how cold they keep our drinks; love this lowball version for a cocktail on the go; would make a great stocking stuffer or white elephant gift</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+Iipbl8ktaWxdTcMpbUly8w">Camo Dopp Kit</a>: </b>20% off + free shipping with code FRIENDS; a good dopp kit is another essential for every man and this camo printed leather really caught my eye; love that it's also lined with nylon for easy clean up and that the foil debossed monogram is included for free</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+1s4KNOrN-ECzpJ3kfVHiDQ">Pheasant Lapel Pin</a>: </b>under $60; the best things come in small packages and this pin would make a great addition to a suit or blazer; also comes in lab, fly, and trout styles</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+uRS62357Pv9-zfYk863LdQ">ExOfficio Boxers</a>: </b>currently 40% off; these were the <b>only </b>thing Bryce asked for last year for Christmas; when I went to REI to get them, every salesperson in the place raved about them and when I shared on Stories and in my Prime last minute gift guide, many of you shared the men in your life are equally as obsessed as Bryce is; Bryce stocked up today while they're on sale, and you should too</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+xMjV6zBQI5IX6Jom5y8UjA">Watch</a>: </b>on sale for $129 and has rave reviews; love the versatility of this classic watch and that it can be personalized with an engraved monogram on the back of the face<b> </b></div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+QThMpcQj7Rz3mn25yhSurg">Democracy Coasters</a>: </b>this set of 4 coasters feature the Declaration of Independence, Bill of Rights, Constitution, and the Civil Rights Act; great reviews and sure to please the patriot or history buff; also love <a href="https://rstyle.me/+qT9VhUFYvcJEYvCZQEtiBw">these coasters</a> and my parents gifted <a href="https://rstyle.me/+1qaNXi9NU-G5tHejTJ8d7w">these</a> to Bryce years ago and we always get compliments</div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/+abo5RWEiLT-A-9dFW94tCQ" style="font-weight: bold;">Charging Carabiner</a><b>: </b>20% off making it under $25 with code FRIENDS; this tool is so handy; throw it on a backpack or use it carry your keys and always have a phone charger at hand</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+amc4GW06vN9FlZDBe3VnSQ">Hot Sauce Ornament</a>: </b>just $8 (or less) with code BRIGHT; perfect for the hot and spicy man in your life</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+TL9HfhVTa9Yib86CK9MfBQ">Garment Folder</a>: </b>Bryce bought this in advance of a two week work trip to Germany a couple of years ago and insisted I include it in my gift guides- he raves about it!; helps to perfectly fold your shirts when packing and also is a space saver</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+3Ok5V2Im5eLQawRV2CtJcw">Waxed Tote</a>: </b>Filson products are a splurge, but are made in America of the highest quality and are extremely rugged and durable; the waxed style is water repellent and this is also nylon lined; Bryce has an earlier version without the zipper and loves its versatility; I'll also remind you of <a href="https://rstyle.me/+KDrJA4q8HcCwkZpzCtqa7A">this</a> other favorite tote that y'all have loved in my gift guides the last 2 years that is just $55!</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+eR5kRVQ9mE0eRDtIND5bbA">Throw Blanket</a>: </b>currently 30% off; made of recycled materials, this throw is stylish enough to please both gents and ladies...much better than the nylon camping camo throw Bryce loves, haha!</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+bY8U6xS32ZyQ3Ud0QN28mw">Pocket Saw</a>: </b>under $40; another Bryce recommendation - "my favorite saw" - he keeps it in his blind bag when hunting to brush blinds; also great for cutting small firewood when camping, or even just pruning in the yard</div>
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<b><a href="https://www.tecovas.com/products/the-duke?variant=12485524160621">Ostrich Boots</a>: </b>these boots are definitely a splurge, but handmade and so so good; I am hoping to be able to pop into the Tecovas store when in Austin next week; also love <a href="https://rstyle.me/+aQ-3zQFiV0ogHAEOPT5tBQ">these</a> and <a href="http://www.redwingshoes.com/red-wing-shoe/1155-red-wing-shoes/1155-red-wing-mens-11-inch-pull-on-boot-brown">these</a> are Bryce's all-time favorite boots (that I love, too), but I couldn't find a shoppable link to include them in the guide above</div>
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<b><a href="https://www.jrcigars.com/item/davidoff-winston-churchill-cigars/robusto/DAWSR4.html#start=1">Cigar</a>: </b>under $70 for a pack of 4; if you're guy's into cigars, Bryce highly recommends these; would be the perfect Christmas present that could be enjoyed on New Year's Eve</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+DEQx5xsVUKZfJFQrBSzPOg">Shotgun Shell Belt</a> & </b><b><a href="https://kevinscatalog.com/collections/mens-belts/products/canebrake-rattlesnake-belt">Rattlesnake Belt</a>: </b>these are Bryce's two favorite belts, and that's saying a lot because he has too many belts; the rattlesnake is more of a splurge (and not my favorite, honestly), but he loves it and always gets compliments on it!</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+VpothRfqS15GukRx08okGQ">Card Bottle Opener</a>: </b>under $20 with code BRIGHT; love that this bottle opener is the size of a credit card and can fit easily into a wallet or money clip; would make a great stocking stuffer!</div>
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What men are you shopping for this year?<br />
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Happy shopping!<br />
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Have a great Thanksgiving!Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-77573964817371734842019-11-27T11:50:00.000-05:002019-11-27T13:27:41.859-05:002019 Holiday Gift Guide: LADIESHappy Thanksgiving Eve!<br />
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I don't know about y'all, but I am READY for the holidays! Aside from shopping ahead, all things Christmas before Thanksgiving used to bother me. This year in particular, I pulled my Nest Holiday candle out immediately after Halloween, and have even found myself playing the occasional Christmas tune. Each year the holiday season seems to come and go even more quickly, so I no longer mind extending the festivities.<br />
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One holiday tradition I do look forward to is sharing gift guides with you! There is so much satisfaction in giving someone you care about the <i>perfect </i>gift, but amongst all the demands of the holiday season, shopping can become just one more stressor and there can be a lot of pressure to find the right gift. I aim to make that easier for you, and also to make it easier on your wallet by delivering my guides each year before Black Friday (which seems to come earlier each year, as you'll see that many of the items I'm sharing are already marked down by retailers for Black Friday).<br />
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As always, my guides are filled with things I own and love, or things on my personal wish list! Many of the items are linked with affiliate links, meaning I earn a small commission if you buy. Below the collage you'll find more details about each item (sale status, sizing, options at other price points, etc). Also, be sure to tune into Stories on Instagram today, and in the coming weeks, as I'll feature more details about favorites from the guides and will also share sale alerts!<br />
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<a href="https://www.carolinadandy.com/collections/accessories-1/products/natural-bamboo-bangle">bamboo bangle</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+GcO8umxA0Sum19dcGx34dQ">coin necklace</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+zVRQJm5Ai2r064Ebqb40Rg">bamboo flatware</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+voFBCeUaSMtDhZdRUPihQQ">faux fur scarf</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+V2HnObvvU6Ok2NjAOP9ogA">key ring</a> /</div>
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<i><a href="https://rstyle.me/+1IarmiqUT7y6XiZ9zRL_Yg">Living Floral</a> </i>/ <a href="https://rstyle.me/+BG8uwnBVyq9xoc_Pvho4ww">star pajamas</a> / <a href="https://eleven-point.com/collections/the-tortoise-shell-candle/products/copy-the-tortoise-shell">tortoise candle</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+Fv6O6W3npW322IhsSTyr7w">pearl studs</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+2QfHlx8nieBLeFNFuOvKgA">funny bunny polish</a> /</div>
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<a href="https://pomegranateinc.com/collections/handblocked-napkins/products/oak-leaf-napkin?variant=30740574339207">oak leaf napkins</a> / <a href="https://shopduckduckgoose.com/products/fa-la-la-croix-ornaments">La Croix ornament</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+nJMvUMYJo4lJwFmD78KrtQ">cosmetic bag</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+BzAhVTsRYULvVnhe0Ldz3A">slippers</a> / <a href="https://www.thestationerystudio.com/product/embossed-monogram-wardrobe-p2820.html?estZipCode=23226">stationery suite</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+bympQxfZU5d6igUzyl0JQA">bud vase</a> /</div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/+CuFE5-pRMB6qMt_OTSVAUA">overnight peel</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+E7E-OnYD0jR-ZI6NIacvEA">pearl barrette</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+ZH1hTsbS5gz2-YBgU9WiEw">clean volumizing mascara</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+4i1ZkWRL6f9woX6Y5sNPPw">clean lengthening mascara</a> / </div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/+lLc4fEcR8E81cNehyHtzJw">lip gloss</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+fCQGVgTguYnjdBVhCAYSRw">lip salve</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+gEguKc4mUo-K708n89WCow">roll neck sweater</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+ViwvGjLiJiTdxPVJ-YGifQ">soho platter</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+PeernJcTUPJaYtTGGqJDxw">leopard headband</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+cTxP7nTP3ct8D1UkseN3mg">blue scarf</a> /</div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/+IRGgBqb9znebyV4uhtC5TQ">glam clutch</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+UByV6poR7HuN1Our6DBflw"><i>Vogue </i>puzzle</a> / <a href="https://www.crabandcleek.com/collections/totes/products/staffordshire-dogs">staffordshire tote</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+7P9e3cVAxgioPuuoCirB8g">pocket tape measure</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+ZYZ1cJRdVeJIbdqCHbdJkA">crossbody bag</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/+YdtGzbHqFQz0zHmNZzmJrg">snake mules</a></div>
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<b><a href="https://www.carolinadandy.com/collections/accessories-1/products/natural-bamboo-bangle">Bamboo Bangle</a>: </b>under $20!; I've had this bangle over 10 years and live in it during the summer--it's lightweight and stacks well with other bracelets; this would make a great stocking stuffer or white elephant gift</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+GcO8umxA0Sum19dcGx34dQ">Coin Necklace</a>: </b>I've been really loving the coin necklace trend, particularly when two are layered together, and have been ogling <a href="https://rstyle.me/+21RfBIpvXVqTh-Dusjwzpw">Jane Winchester's</a> at the high end from Tuckernuck; so was pleased to find this quality gold-plated version for you at a much more approachable price point</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+zVRQJm5Ai2r064Ebqb40Rg">Bamboo Flatware</a>: </b>under $30 with code SCORE; this bamboo flatware was on my Christmas list last year and my parents gifted it to me; for $30 you get four place settings as compared to the oh so lovely, oh so pricey <a href="https://rstyle.me/+Fummn9oXVGrUoCSBCJU9wQ">Juliska version</a> that sells for $188 for just one place setting; get lots of compliments on these which can be "dressed up" or "dressed down"; finally, as a bonus they're dishwasher safe!; see them styled on my table <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/B16rfu7F5uu/">here</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/Bz6i8ZGF2nU/">here</a></div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+voFBCeUaSMtDhZdRUPihQQ">Faux Fur Scarf</a>: </b>Hands down one of my favorite winter accessories is <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/Bt07v26FYrr/">my faux fur scarf</a>; mine is no longer available, but this one has great reviews and the black is so chic; the pull through design also makes styling a cinch; also love <a href="https://rstyle.me/+exN-vHhMVkmITWIw_nKunA">this leopard one</a> that's currently 60% off and under $20; <a href="https://rstyle.me/+CwZNc2etxYzRf3CB9Qxveg">this one</a> comes in 4 colors including a fab hot pink and taupe that's similar to mine; and <a href="https://rstyle.me/+pVgIxyO4ntFNPXstiZUgXA">this one</a> on sale for under $30 is more of a stole and would be fab paired with a sleeveless or strapless cocktail dress at a holiday party</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+V2HnObvvU6Ok2NjAOP9ogA">Key Ring</a>: </b>under $10 and comes in 35 colors; this key ring would be the perfect gift for all your girlfriends, especially mamas, or would also make a great white elephant gift or stocking stuffer</div>
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+1IarmiqUT7y6XiZ9zRL_Yg" style="font-style: italic;">Living Floral</a>: </b>under $30; this is on my wish list and might be my favorite entertaining coffee table book...ever!; my mother-in-law has it and I am slowly making my way through it studying and reading every page filled with events and tips from tastemakers like Charlotte Moss and Tara Guerard<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+BG8uwnBVyq9xoc_Pvho4ww">Star Pajamas</a>: </b>on sale for under $100 thru December 2; I believe the best gifts are those that someone would want and love but not buy oneself and Lake Pajamas totally fit that bill; I shared with y'all on Stories this summer after purchasing a short set on sale, that while I <i>love </i>them, I don't think they're worth full price; I did however think they were perfect for my own wish list and am crossing my fingers Santa may bring me a pair...this Sister Parish red star set is perfect for Christmas; if even the sale price feels a little too steep, I have two sets of <a href="https://rstyle.me/+UVX1OxF-oiZpQT-lSosPMw">these</a> that are about half the price while on sale now for 40% off and they are so soft and cozy; also love <a href="https://rstyle.me/+PB2qijZzQRCba09XjoOyzw">these festive ones</a> on sale for under $40 and <a href="https://rstyle.me/+0dI_JEVB8z4c1ePFXSNQTw">these Christmas cuties</a> on sale for under $30<br />
<b><a href="https://eleven-point.com/collections/the-tortoise-shell-candle/products/copy-the-tortoise-shell">Tortoise Candle</a>: </b>under $30!; stylish candles that are affordable are hard to come by and this one is oh so chic!; I love that it comes in a wide range of scent options (mine is the clean scent Cotton Creek) and I plan to save the tortoise container once the candle is done - wouldn't it be pretty for flowers!?; would make a great hostess gift for a holiday party wrapped in a clear bag with a big red bow<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+Fv6O6W3npW322IhsSTyr7w">Pearl Studs</a>: </b>under $100; I received these myself as a gift last year and reach for them multiple times a week; y'all love them too and ask me about them all the time on Insta; they're a classic that will never go out of style; I have the large size<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+2QfHlx8nieBLeFNFuOvKgA">Funny Bunny Polish</a>: </b>under $10; I choose this shade for gel manicures again and again - it is the perfect white polish; sometimes white nails look far too stark to me and this is a more subtle, slightly sheer white that is so beautiful, it's subtle shade also means it works better year-round; on the opposite end of the spectrum <a href="https://rstyle.me/+0kRSYBdsgurnSxyrvFOgCw">here</a> is the perfect almost black polish from my guides last year<br />
<b><a href="https://shopduckduckgoose.com/products/fa-la-la-croix-ornaments">La Croix Ornament</a>: </b>because we all have at least 5 La Croix loving friends; I included the orange as that is my all time favorite flavor, but also comes in pink and green; selling out fast many places so as a back up, you can also find it <a href="https://shoplucyrose.com/products/fa-la-la-croix-ornament">here</a>, <a href="https://www.lionheartprints.com/products/fa-la-la-croix-ornament">here</a>, and <a href="https://www.olivesandgrace.com/products/fa-la-la-croix-ornaments">here</a><br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+nJMvUMYJo4lJwFmD78KrtQ">Cosmetic Bag</a>: </b>I'll be completely honest, I'm not entirely sure what all the hype for MZ Wallace is about- maybe because the quilted style is an homage to our beloved high school Vera Bradley?; that said, I am in the market for a new cosmetic bag and this rose gold one caught my eye in store recently and I do really like that the fabric is water- and stain- resistant; I also have had <a href="https://rstyle.me/+1rIPNNCAknsNSAKFXe88tg">this Scout one</a> since college and love it for less than half the price of the MZ Wallace<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+BzAhVTsRYULvVnhe0Ldz3A">Slippers</a>: </b>I've had these now for 7 years and absolutely love them and y'all do too because you always ask about them on Stories; come in 9 colors, so cozy, water resistant and have a rubber sole so they can be worn outside; I often slip them on when I'm headed to the barre studio at 0 dark 30 to teach 6:00 am class; run large, order one full size down; also love <a href="https://rstyle.me/+QAnvHriJsYACJ4PhhZxotA">this more affordable monogrammed version</a> (under $25 with code SPORT15)<br />
<b><a href="https://www.thestationerystudio.com/product/embossed-monogram-wardrobe-p2820.html?estZipCode=23226">Stationery Suite</a>: </b>on sale for under $50; I have this stationery suite in ivory which is a southern lady's dream!; comes with 25 each of flat notecards, folded notecards, and folded enclosure cards; I am also obsessing over <a href="https://rstyle.me/+v7viNDfipss0ywp0QoMgxA">this modern stationery</a><br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+bympQxfZU5d6igUzyl0JQA">Bud Vase</a>: </b>under $50 + up to 30% off; I've eyed this bud vase in stores in the clear glass, but when I came across it in the pink for gift guides I was sold...swoon!; this would be a great gift for the gal who has everything and I love that it's beautiful enough to hold its own with or without flowers<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+CuFE5-pRMB6qMt_OTSVAUA">Overnight Peel</a>: </b>15% off through December 1; I started using this last year in anticipation of my 30th birthday and it has transformed my skin so much that within weeks of using it, y'all were commenting on Insta and asking for a skincare post (that I still haven't gotten to a year later, ha); I aim to use it nightly and it smooths and brightens skin after just one use; if you don't believe me check the 1,766 5 star reviews; note the packaging has changed and looks different from my collage above - the link is correct! (if you need a consultant, <a href="https://www.beautycounter.com/kathleenbaker/contact">Kathleen Baker</a> is the best!)<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+E7E-OnYD0jR-ZI6NIacvEA">Pearl Barrette</a>: </b>under $30 with code BRIGHT; the best things come in little packages; this pretty pearl barrette adds glam to any outfit and would be perfect for the girly girl in your life; also love <a href="https://rstyle.me/+qFkgrA8vvOvUZOpDxO1GeQ">this similar Prime 4-pack</a> for just $5.99 as a stocking stuffer<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+ZH1hTsbS5gz2-YBgU9WiEw">Clean Volumizing Mascara</a> & </b><b style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+4i1ZkWRL6f9woX6Y5sNPPw" style="text-align: center;">Clean Lengthening Mascara</a>: </b><span style="text-align: center;">under $25 each; I've shared on Stories that I've slowly been trying to swap out my beauty products for more clean options and these clean mascaras are THE best..truly like them better than any other mascara I've used; I like to wear both, using the volumizing first with lengthening layered on top, but both are great on their own, too</span><br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+lLc4fEcR8E81cNehyHtzJw">Lip Gloss</a></b> I actually wore this lip gloss at my wedding in the "Giza" shade (no longer available, but "Outrage" is a similar option); it can be worn as a pretty neutral gloss alone, but I love it most layered over lipstick, particularly red lipstick<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+fCQGVgTguYnjdBVhCAYSRw">Lip Salve</a>: </b>under $10; this Mint Rose balm is my absolute favorite; I've been using it for probably 10 years now and always have a <a href="https://rstyle.me/+jbUadhf5Ikld4eegXCzDrQ">jar</a> on my bedside table and a tube in my bag so I'm not using germy fingers when out and about; would make a perfect stocking stuffer or teacher gift paired with some <a href="https://rstyle.me/+nWwsT9YtiXGK2i0x3wWy5w">nice hand lotion</a> and a <a href="https://rstyle.me/+u0IyZ9Qs2qUMJZAvBnXABw">holiday candle</a><br />
<a href="https://rstyle.me/+gEguKc4mUo-K708n89WCow" style="font-weight: bold;">Roll Neck Sweater</a><b>:</b> up to 60% off sale price; I purchased this sweater in the Dark Papaya color on Black Friday last year for a steal and it is a favorite; it's very comfy and "easy" to wear and the cut is both lengthening and slimming; true to size; sadly size options are sparse right now, but I'd watch for a restock and also check out <a href="https://rstyle.me/+LkLbk6BvXlcUx74E43i8YA">this cotton version</a> (also up to 60% off) with much more availability - I love the gray!<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+ViwvGjLiJiTdxPVJ-YGifQ">Soho Platter</a>: </b>a hostess's dream!; I received one of these platters for our wedding and use it so much I bought a second last year; can be put in oven up to 375F; versatile size which allows you to use it as a platter for food or as a pretty tray; at a lower price point, <a href="https://rstyle.me/+z-qLC6H1cYhR7TgKRO5dNg">this</a> is another piece I reach for again and again that y'all loved in my gift guide last year available through Amazon Prime; also check out the line's new <a href="https://rstyle.me/+fwo_pAtvDqf0fCYHi9Sr2A">"Giftables" items</a> that are smaller and all under $50!<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+PeernJcTUPJaYtTGGqJDxw">Leopard Headband</a>: </b>under $10!; I am here for the new headband trend and actually never stopped wearing headbands in the first place; I'm loving these new statement, knotted styles and y'all know I can't say no to leopard- for under $10, I think I'll be gifting this one to myself...and maybe every other gal on my list<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+cTxP7nTP3ct8D1UkseN3mg">Blue Scarf</a>: </b>under $50 + up to 30% off with code BRIGHT; I have this scarf in two other patterns and it exudes style...and looks way more expensive than it is- so much so that when getting tea at the swanky Sketch in London, the host commented on my Hermes! (I didn't correct him, rather said "Good eye, thank you!" Ha!); I am definitely adding this to my list or buying for myself because I wanted this print <i>so </i>badly last year, but it sold out<br />
<span style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/+IRGgBqb9znebyV4uhtC5TQ" style="font-weight: bold; text-align: center;">Glam Clutch</a>: just $35 through Amazon Prime; I discovered this clutch through one of <a href="https://www.instagram.com/holycitychic/">Holy City Chic</a>'s Amazon hauls and instantly fell in love; comes in 4 other colors and reminds me of this pricier one <a href="https://rstyle.me/+kYPsoB9jZKu7lC-9bLLrkg">here</a>; I also am obsessed with <a href="https://lolaandtheboys.com/products/acrylic-clutch?variant=28814948663344&currency=USD&gclid=Cj0KCQiA2vjuBRCqARIsAJL5a-I4fbV5Gu2lWdqanepMG40ezskmSZ2hGgKYi1xADOn-GEyJHiHgjMsaAlI5EALw_wcB">this $60 star one</a> </span><br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+UByV6poR7HuN1Our6DBflw"><i>Vogue </i>Puzzle</a>: </b>under $20 + up to 30% off with code BRIGHT; I love puzzles for vacations or extended visits with family and these chic ones (more <a href="https://rstyle.me/+b-IgSz76KhbWg5LJ2WooCg">here</a>) are so fab!; I also really love <a href="https://rstyle.me/+aEp3QcepPl6YFKCY1PfXmw">this <i>New Yorker</i> Christmas one</a>; would be perfect to gift to your family's holiday hostess and to pull out to complete by the tree with a fire blazing and Bing Crosby on the radio, ahhh!<br />
<b><a href="https://www.crabandcleek.com/collections/totes/products/staffordshire-dogs">Staffordshire Tote</a>: </b>ummm...can you believe how cute this is?; also love <a href="https://www.crabandcleek.com/collections/totes/products/tartan-topiary">this tartan topiary one</a>; I have one of these totes in <a href="https://www.crabandcleek.com/collections/totes/products/preorder-ginger-jar-with-french-blue-trim?variant=8643415343215">the ginger jar print</a> (with coral straps they sadly no longer make) and Millie has her very own in <a href="https://www.crabandcleek.com/collections/totes/products/camo-dog">the camo dog print</a>; can have them monogrammed by the company, but I prefer a more couture monogram and had <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BbCvEokAlF7/">mine</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BI8etoEgBN_/">Millie's</a> embroidered locally at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/atlanticembroideryworks/">Atlantic Embroidery Works</a><br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+7P9e3cVAxgioPuuoCirB8g">Pocket Tape Measure</a>: </b>I have one of these in my purse and reach for it all the time...far more often than I expected when I bought it; love the chic monogram; items like these make great gifts for the gal who has everything<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+ZYZ1cJRdVeJIbdqCHbdJkA">Crossbody Bag</a>: </b>Linked the black which is currently 60% off, also available in 4 other colors for 60% off <a href="https://rstyle.me/+GkB6Apkv0BgR1Kti_OtaLw">here</a> and love <a href="https://rstyle.me/+b6ROX-Xz277ts9aZ_KQDnw">this clear style</a> for a college student; I have this in navy and it may have been my best purchase of 2018; it is big enough to hold a wallet, keys, phone, and more, but still sleek; I used it during our entire England trip; the strap is removable so it can be worn as a clutch or crossbody; dressed <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BnLTRK8lVd5/">up</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/Bm_z1UjHoPh/">down</a>; since getting my Goyard, I keep mine in my bag with my wallet in it at all times, so I can just slip it out if I don't want to carry my big tote somewhere<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/+YdtGzbHqFQz0zHmNZzmJrg">Snake Mules</a>: </b>so on trend right now - I ordered these mules about a month ago and have been wearing them non-stop since getting them and receive compliments every time; true to size and seriously so comfortable; come in 7 other colorways including a leopard that is to die for!<br />
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Who's on your list this year?<br />
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Are any of these products you have and love?<br />
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What's on your wish list?<br />
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Happy Shopping!Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-35350892097052088852019-09-10T09:00:00.000-04:002019-09-10T09:00:05.622-04:0010 Tips for New RunnersHappy Tuesday friends!<br />
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This post is long overdue, as I had meant to post it in January with New Year's resolutions. That said, today marks 1 year since my running journey began and I can't think of a better time to share than September when fall and cooler weather is right around the corner!<br />
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Prior to last September, I always called myself a seasonal runner. I'd find myself hitting the pavement each fall when cool weather would creep in and the leaves would start changing. As soon as winter came, the leaves fell from the trees, and temperatures dropped below about 50° my runs would come to a halt until the first warm weather of spring would creep in and the leaves would begin emerging once again. Last year, for reasons still unbeknownst to me, that changed, though. I found myself craving my runs and discovered that cold weather runs are by far my favorite. After running the Turkey Trot on Thanksgiving, I made a goal to complete a 10 miler by the New Year. Since then, I've run the Shamrock Half Marathon and the Monument Avenue 10k. I've run each and every month - some months more than others - and have logged a total 327 miles.<br />
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I've shared snippets along the way on Instagram, as a way to keep myself accountable, and have gotten many requests from you to share my tips. Particularly tips to take those first steps, so am compiling my top 10 here today!<br />
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<b>JUST GO!</b></div>
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My number one tip is to just go! My biggest running cheerleader is a best friend who's both a physical therapist and marathon runner. She always says "The first mile is a liar" insinuating that it's harder than the rest. Set your own pace and set small goals and milestones to celebrate along the way.</div>
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<b>COMMIT TO A ROUTINE</b></div>
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I'll be the first to admit that the last couple of months I've failed at this one. Between sickness, work, and heat, making running a routine has been tough. That said, when you're just getting started a routine is key. Commit to running at least 2-3 times per week, with recovery days in between. You'll be amazed at how quickly you build endurance and stamina as you make running a habit. </div>
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<b>DON'T BE AFRAID TO WALK</b></div>
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As I mentioned above, set your own pace at the beginning. To expand on that, don't be afraid to stop and walk if you need. Your first goal may be to work up to a mile without stopping, but if the first few runs you have to stop at half a mile, do it! It's amazing what just a short 30 seconds, 1 minute, or 1 block walking break will do to reenergize you. If giving yourself a walking break or two means you can run 3 miles instead of 2, it's well worth it! </div>
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<b>PINPOINT YOUR "EASY RUN"</b></div>
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Once you've been running a few weeks, pinpoint what feels like an easy distance to run (this can, should, and will change as you run more). Use this "easy run" to negotiate with yourself. For me that's 3 miles. On days that I'm really not feeling motivated, I use my easy run as a negotiation. I tell myself "I'll just run an easy 3 miles." More often than not once I get started, I get in a groove and run 4, 5, or even 6 miles...again, the first steps are the hardest, so bargain with yourself if you need.</div>
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<b>MEASURE YOUR RUNS IN HALF MILE INCREMENTS</b></div>
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This tip stems from my Type A tendencies, but I do think makes a difference when you're working to increase your distance. I have my running app (I use <a href="https://www.mapmyrun.com/auth/login">Map My Run</a>) set to alert me at half mile intervals. I always stop on the mile or half mile for my cool-down. Once you've worked your way up to running 2 or 3 miles with ease, adding a half mile, which is about 5 minutes, doesn't seem so tough. Sometimes you'll even get to that half mile point and realize you've got an extra 5 minutes in you and can push another half mile. Once you get to running even longer distances, it can become a mind game and I even will equate half miles to songs. 10 minutes more is about 2 songs (give or take), so I'll tell myself "You can run for just 2 more songs!" if I've got a mile left.</div>
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<b>REMEMBER EVERY RUN IS DIFFERENT</b></div>
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Keep in mind that every run is different. I've worked myself up to a "normal" run being around 5 miles, and that even feels easy sometimes. There are days, however (if it's really hot, or, I ate a big lunch, for example) when just 3 miles can be brutal. I never beat myself up for those runs, though, and always tell myself that running slow or a short distance is better than stopping or skipping the run altogether.</div>
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<b>LOCATION, LOCATION, LOCATION</b></div>
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For me, scenery is huge! I beeline it out of my neighborhood as soon as I can making my way to Grove Avenue, where I can loop in and out of all of my favorite Richmond neighborhoods admiring the pretty houses. Being surrounded with beauty, as well as other people and activity, makes my runs so much more enjoyable. When I get in a rut, I'll also switch up my route slightly, or run down a street I've never run before to keep things fresh. Similarly, whenever I'm out of town and run in a new place, I'm amazed at how far I can go, because the excitement of exploring a new place is a distraction from fatigue.</div>
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<b>SAFETY FIRST</b></div>
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I prefer to run outside, which does bring risks. Bryce says he literally worries about me the entire time I am gone on runs. First things first, put your phone away! I've fallen twice during runs: Once in March 2018 and once last September. During the first fall, I skinned my knee really badly and also scraped my hands. During the second, I crushed my phone and had Millie with me. Both times I was looking at my phone to adjust something on my running app. After the second tumble, I immediately ordered <a href="https://rstyle.me/+CnqQbO4oT6b8Bw-BwL69fQ">this running belt</a>. It's essentially a fanny pack, and not chic, but it keeps me hands free and is also waterproof! Buying shoes at a running shop recommended for your feet and gait, giving yourself recovery days, stretching and strength training will all help avoid injury. Don't run at night, but do purchase clip on lights and reflective gear for dusk runs, or times you may get accidentally caught in the dark. Wear sunscreen, especially on your face and chest!</div>
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<b>SIGN UP FOR A RACE</b></div>
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Never underestimate the power of a race to hold you accountable. As mentioned above, in my Turkey Trot 10k training last fall, I loved that I had caught what I called the running bug. I was so nervous I'd give up my runs over the cold winter, so signed up for the Shamrock Half Marathon on St. Patrick's Day, because I knew it would force me to stick with it through the winter. I'm so glad I did, because winter runs became my very favorite. Not to mention, there's no feeling quite like crossing the finish line...especially when it's for a distance you never thought possible!</div>
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<b>NEVER GIVE UP</b></div>
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If you're interested in running, just keep at it - never give up! As I shared, I was a seasonal runner for years, and every time I would start it was with the intention of going beyond the season. Until last fall, though, it just never stuck. I still am not sure what it is that hooked me last year, but once I was hooked, I decided to embrace it! When life happens and you fall out of the habit, do give yourself grace. For example, I only ran one time in May, then the next month in June, I ran more times than any other month during this year of running. August was a really demanding month, and likewise, I only ran once. This September is a new start, though! Never give up!</div>
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And on that note, I need to figure out my next race! My birthday falls on the Turkey Trot (also Thanksgiving) this year, but I'm not sure yet if we'll be spending Thanksgiving in town or the country this year. I'm been considering signing up for the Richmond Half Marathon, also in November, but am still working through some issues where my left hamstring meets my IT band, so am not sure 13.1 miles is the smartest, or safest (see Tip #8 above) choice at this point. Regardless, though, I know I'm not giving up!</div>
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Have a great day!</div>
Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-8142992508005844502019-09-04T09:00:00.000-04:002019-09-04T09:00:04.458-04:00Thoughtful Baby Shower Gifts...even at the last minute!Happy Hump Day...thank goodness for short work weeks!<br />
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Our season of life has changed and we've shifted from weddings to babies. We haven't been to a wedding since December and during that same time, I've been to probably five or six baby showers! A couple weekends ago, as I prepared for one such shower at the last minute, I posted on <a href="http://instagram.com/alexandrabeeblog">Instagram </a>Stories sharing my tips for baby shower gifting, registry guidelines, and adding thoughtfulness to gifts. I received such good feedback, as well as additional good tips from followers, and also thought of a few more ideas myself since posting. All that said, I thought it may be helpful and worthwhile to post the content here, too, in a place where it's easier to reference later and for me to direct you to some great gifts online.<br />
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<b>First things first, let's talk registries:</b><br />
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<li>They exist for a reason!</li>
<li>When it comes to baby registries, in particular, new mamas spend <i style="font-weight: bold;">a lot </i>of time researching, asking friends and family, and choosing what they think is best for their new baby. So, be mindful of the registry and respect their choices.</li>
<li>If you think a registry gift is impersonal or boring, my favorite tip is to select something to gift from the registry, and then select something off registry that complements it. More on this later, but it is the number one way to take your registry, especially last minute registry, gift to the next level and make it feel special.</li>
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<b>There are a few exceptions to my "Respect the Registry" rules:</b><br />
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<li>Heirloom Baby Gifts: When you really want to go above and beyond with a baby shower gift (think, a gift for your expectant best friend or sister), you may want to choose an heirloom gift that will be cherished for years to come and even passed down in a family. Top picks for these would be a monogrammed Beaufort Bonnet Co. <a href="https://rstyle.me/+rkEsdbM4zr4G6SHetK6jhQ">bonnet</a>, an engraved <a href="https://rstyle.me/+jj-Y1MlMoBch3upEDYQO0Q">baby cup</a>, or <a href="https://rstyle.me/+I-rw_S4hlO9DTZuRoNeZZg">pewter rattle</a>.</li>
<li>Those Gifts that "Scream" the Mama-to-Be: These gifts are again, reserved for those friends or family members you know <i>so well</i>. They're the gifts that you spy, get giddy about, and say to yourself "That is SO XYZ mama." </li>
<li>Your Own Tried & Trues: If you're a mama yourself, gifting your tried & true, can't live without baby items, is a great way to "pay it forward." At the most recent baby showers, I've been to, <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhynt7u8e">this</a> has been the top "tried & true" gift.</li>
<li>Gifts to Spoil the Mama-to-Be: You won't often find things for the mama on registries, but items that can bring comfort or joy to her during the moments where she feels least comfortable make for very thoughtful gifts.</li>
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To avoid completely boring you with more words, let's take a look at some examples, with more detail and explanation provided below.<br />
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhxhk7u8e">gingham bonnet</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhxev7u8e">rattle</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhyfk7u8e">knit lamb</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhx7v7u8e">dalmatian lovie</a> /</div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhynt7u8e">nose frida</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhy9m7u8e">baby's initial necklace</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhywx7u8e">charcoal mask</a> / <i><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhxpj7u8e">welcome little one</a> </i>/</div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhx4w7u8e">pom pom canvas bin</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhyz77u8e">pearl headband</a> / <i><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drwibq7u8e">birds of a color</a></i></div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhxhk7u8e">Bonnet</a> and <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhxev7u8e">Rattle</a>: </b>These are both great examples of the heirloom gifts I mentioned, and are worth the splurge because they stand the test of time. For something a little more fresh (and also affordable), but still very personalized and special, check out these plates for <a href="https://rstyle.me/+-kC7ydzYAtMQ9kMs0lqOSA">baby girl</a> and <a href="https://rstyle.me/+02pBq9efFMcUxJGQ6SPeBg">baby boy.</a></div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhyfk7u8e">Lamb Blabla Doll</a> and <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhx7v7u8e">Dalmatian Lovie</a></b>: As mentioned above, a great way to elevate a registry gift is with a gift that complements, or just adds the cuteness factor, to an otherwise practical gift. I love how whimsical the <a href="https://www.amazon.com/stores/node/2583457011?_encoding=UTF8&field-lbr_brands_browse-bin=Blabla&ref_=bl_dp_s_web_2583457011">Blabla Kids</a> line is, and the lamb is a great gender neutral option. At a lower price point, but still equally sweet, are <a href="https://rstyle.me/+KqPOl0CduwiOx-Hpivi1RQ">Angel Dear lovies</a>. We've gifted both of these as congratulatory gifts, as well, when friends have told us they're expecting. <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhymf7u8e">Sophie the Giraffe</a> is another great option, here, as is this adorable <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhyn67u8e">Avocado Stroller Toy</a>.</div>
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<b><i><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhxpj7u8e">Welcome Little One</a> </i>and <i><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drwibq7u8e">Birds of a Color</a> </i>Board Books: </b>Similar to the animals above, board books are another great "cherry on top" to add to your otherwise practical gift. I avoid classics, because it's more likely the recipient will receive duplicates of classics. In addition to the two I love and mentioned above, I also really like <i><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhxpx7u8e">Press Here</a></i>, <i><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhyvv7u8e">I'd Know You Anywhere, My Love</a></i>,<i> </i>and <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhxsu7u8e">Jellycat's Touch and Feel</a> board books which come in a whole zoo of animals to fit any theme!</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhy9m7u8e">Baby's Initial Necklace</a>, <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhywx7u8e">Charcoal Mask</a>, and <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhyz77u8e">Pearl Headband</a>: </b>These gifts are all about spoiling mama! I love the delicate initial necklace that can be worn all the time and layered with other necklaces. I chose to include <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhy9m7u8e">this one</a>, in particular, because it comes in five length options, as well as in silver, gold and rose gold finishes; can be personalized with multiple initials and symbols like a heart; and also comes in metal options ranging in price from $29.75 to $238. A mask, or other "spa" items like <a href="https://rstyle.me/+uy-vd_tdN1k4yTxxrHV-oA">this candle</a>, encourage self care and relaxation during pregnancy. I've been enjoying <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhywx7u8e">this charcoal one</a> myself lately, and am also still obsessed and using this <a href="https://rstyle.me/+PdsO5Cl2CBwzXFFRLKuaiQ">rose face cream</a> from my holiday gift guides. Finally, I chose <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhyz77u8e">the pearl headband</a> (under $20!) as it has become my go-to for dirty hair days, or days when I just need a little pick-me-up...both days expectant and new mamas are likely to encounter!<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhx4w7u8e">Pom Pom Canvas Bin</a>: </b>Finally, presentation is everything. Home Goods is my go-to for gift wrap and bags, but with baby gifts, I often will opt for a basket or bin in lieu of wrapping...bonus points if it's from the registry! <a href="https://rstyle.me/+qiwDdqO7W0YCMdbPIkN5Kw">Pehr</a> has tons of cute options like the pom pom bin above, which I've actually gifted in the rainbow version from a registry before, filled with "boring" practical registry items like wipes and diaper cream. I also love <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhxu27u8e">this woven pom pom option</a>, <a href="https://rstyle.me/+tMHktSJ2rU0AZOTkyCBe3Q">this diaper caddy</a>, and splurge <a href="https://rstyle.me/+2hQLA7SiyE6MQx0P9km5dg">cloud basket</a>. At the most recent shower I attended, I used this pretty blush <a href="https://rstyle.me/+BZdJ39nUwW70lRm47SzGNg">pink plastic bin</a> that was just $3.99 and also have had good luck finding options at the Dollar Tree. Fill your basket with tissue paper, or (my personal favorite) <a href="https://rstyle.me/+wLd3OodW0PhZsTZNwWE5eg">crinkle filler</a>, wrap it in a <a href="https://rstyle.me/+_U_ak4Vpz28pMMKSeHUgcQ">basket bag</a>, and top with a pretty bow! Finally, if you don't have <a href="https://rstyle.me/+aI8sf5LQulHCM8qixkY_hQ">monogrammed enclosure cards</a>, I highly recommend them to save yourself from having to buy cards!<br />
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Here's a photo of the formula above in action for the most recent shower I attended (all bought last minute the day of, no less)!<br />
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It's been quite some time since I've posted here on AlexandraBeeBlog.com, but my heart has been longing for more of a creative outlet, and the blog seems like the best place to flex my creative muscle at the moment.<br />
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If you'd like to read more on this, check out my "On Hospitality" highlight reel on <a href="http://instagram.com/alexandrabeeblog">Instagram</a>. In short, though, I've been musing over this idea of Southern hospitality - or graciousness, warmth, welcome - in all aspects of life, not just entertaining. I'll be experimenting with some different ways to bring you content (with a good dose of my usual "lifestyle" content mixed in) in this area over the next few months. As I find myself reading blogs less and less, I'm not sure where to strike the balance between here on the blog, and micro-blogging, a new term I learned which is essentially blogging via Instagram. (Any thoughts?) Stay tuned.<br />
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Being that Labor Day is the unofficial last day of Summer, I wanted to share a recent supper club dinner party before shifting gears to all things Fall. When it comes to entertaining, one detail is often the jumping off board for all others for me. For this particular evening, <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/drhu627u8e">these beaded placemats</a> "Millie" found at Home Goods and gifted me for Mother's Day were that one detail.<br />
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Because of their coral design, I knew a seafood meal was in order, and other coastal details like shells might have to play a part on the table. I also knew, I wanted pink to be the other main color on the table and toyed with the idea of pink candles, napkins, peonies, or glassware.<br />
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I really wanted pink peonies for the table, but wasn't able to track any down, so opted for my other go-to: white hydrangeas. They have such a simple elegance, require no floral arranging skills, and last forever (our party was 3 weeks ago, and they're still going strong on the table!). Pink glasses gave a dose of pink to the table, as did my tobacco leaf china. </div>
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The Staffordshire dogs had been moved from our mantle to the table while we had painters in the living room earlier in the week, so ended up on this tablescape somewhat by accident. I loved the way they looked mixed in with the shells and other decor, though. </div>
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With all the colors and other elements on the table, I decided to stick with classic white linen napkins. These from our wedding are a favorite to use at dinner parties. One napkin is embroidered with my monogram and another is embroidered with Bryce's. I put these at the heads of the table, and the remaining napkins are plain. I never bother to iron my napkins. I think the wrinkles have their own kind of understated elegance and put people at ease and keep things from getting too stuffy. </div>
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For menu, we started with a simple cheese and charcuterie board, thanks to Trader Joe's. Their apricot stilton and marcona almonds are two of my musts for cheese boards!</div>
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For the entree, I knew grilled shrimp over twirly pasta would fit the coastal theme. One of our guests is dairy free, so we opted for this <a href="https://www.tasteslovely.com/dairy-free-pesto/">dairy free pesto</a> over angel hair. We topped it with grilled shrimp, charred cherry tomatoes, and toasted pine nuts. We also served my go-to <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2019/02/arugula-quinoa-salad-with-lemon.html">arugula salad</a> and bread.<br />
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Finally, for dessert, we served this <a href="https://downshiftology.com/recipes/molten-chocolate-lava-cake/">Molten Chocolate Cake with Coconut Whipped Cream and Pistachios</a>. In addition to being dairy free, it was also gluten free, paleo, and oh so delicious!</div>
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Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-83250356500551091402019-02-20T08:30:00.000-05:002019-02-20T10:16:50.833-05:00Weekend RecapHappy Hump Day, readers!<br />
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I don't consistently post weekend recaps (or consistently post anything, haha) on the blog these days, but every now and then a really great weekend comes along that's worth documenting here. This past weekend was one of those weekends and I'm excited to share it with you...and that we're halfway to this coming weekend!<br />
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Our weekend started with the absolutely perfect Valentine's Day dinner party hosted by our friends Blair and Davis. Our friends, Emily and Frank were also in attendance and whenever the six of us get together it is a guaranteed amazing time!<br />
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Blair's tablescape was equal parts formal and whimsy and absolute perfection! I loved how she had cute details like the sparkly pom poms on the table and those marble and gold foil candlesticks were stunners!</div>
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We even each got our own bag of Lindt truffles at our place setting as favors! No detail was spared!</div>
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Just as important as the tablescape is the menu! I took sweet potato ham biscuits, shrimp and grits cakes, and cheese crackers, compliments of <a href="http://www.theordervescompany.com/">The Orderves Company</a> (more on that in a post coming soon!).</div>
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Blair and Davis outdid themselves with our dinner menu. We feasted on salad, beef tenderloin, and lobster pot pie! Blair even made extra puff pastry in the shape of lobsters for dipping! No...detail...spared!</div>
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For dessert, we had <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=shyndigz&oq=shyndigz&aqs=chrome..69i57j0l5.1591j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8">Shyndigz</a> Oreo Cake. So grateful for these wonderful friends and can't wait for our next get together!</div>
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Saturday morning, I taught barre and then my girlfriend Amanda and I hit the road to Raleigh. In snow and rain, no less! Right before Christmas, I had ordered a chair from <a href="https://www.instagram.com/beaudandygoods/">Beau Dandy Goods</a> in Raleigh. Bryce had just been to Raleigh for work and was planning to head back in a few weeks, so Ashleigh was sweet enough to offer to hold the chair so I wouldn't have to pay high shipping costs. Well...Bryce never made it back to Raleigh and doesn't anticipate a trip there soon, so Amanda and I decided to road trip to get the chair...and it was <b>so </b>fun, y'all!</div>
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The weather had cleared by the time we crossed the border into North Carolina. After picking up the chair, and meeting the sweet golden retriever, the "Beau" of Beau Dandy Goods, we headed to brunch at <a href="http://hummingbirdraleigh.com/">Hummingbird</a> at the recommendation of Ashleigh, Beau's mom.</div>
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Hummingbird had a cool vintage meets industrial meets girlie vibe and we loved it! The food was also deeelicious! Amanda and I both chose the Shakshuka, which was burnt tomato, eggs, herbs, and feta baked in a Le Creuset gratin dish. We were very hungry from barre and our time in the car and it did the trick! It was a definite comfort food and it was as if an Italian dinner entree had merged with brunch! I also ordered grits on the side that were cheesy perfection, and Amanda ordered hash brown that were also tasty.</div>
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Our next stop was Cameron Village for shopping! <a href="https://www.charlottesinc.com/">Charlotte's Inc</a> was at the top of both our lists as we've followed them on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/charlottesincraleigh/">Instagram</a> for quite some time. I didn't save any pictures at Charlotte's, but I did get <a href="https://www.crosbybymollieburch.com/collections/sale/products/caroline-dress-1">this dress</a> for 70% off and <a href="https://www.mollybeads.com/collections/earrings/products/sunburst-earrings?variant=15551402016811">these earrings </a>in the turquoise! We also popped into <a href="https://uniquities.com/">Uniquities</a> and <a href="https://www.theimpeccablepig.com/">The Impeccable Pig</a> and then discovered <a href="https://www.stevenshellliving.com/">Steven Shell Living</a> on our way out and decided to pop in! It did not disappoint!</div>
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I fell in love with these gorgeous oversized fern prints that were a steal for just $69! Ferns are a personal favorite and were a big theme in our wedding floral scheme, so I knew I had to indulge. I thought a pair could make a fabulous statement and chose the two on the right below. The maidenhair was a must, because it was one of my favorite details in my wedding bouquet and last summer Bryce planted a maidenhair with black stems like the print in our garden. I picked the second, more traditional fern, because I thought it paired best with the maidenhair in terms of color and scale.</div>
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Our last stop was <a href="http://vitaviteraleigh.com/">Vita Vite</a> at the suggestion of a sorority sister who lives in Raleigh for a quick bite before hitting the road. It had a great energy and vibe and art was displayed for sale all around the restaurant.</div>
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Amanda and I were both still somewhat satisfied from brunch so opted for cheese and charcuterie for dinner. We also split a baby chocolate eclair, because as it turns out, Amanda had never had an eclair before...she liked it!</div>
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We hit the road and made it home in time for each of us to snuggle our pups and head to bed. We both agreed that getting out of town was good for the soul and invigorating! It made me think I really need to do impromptu day trips, or even just a night away more often! One of my favorite things about Richmond is that we have so many cool destinations within just a few hours of us and I want to take better advantage of that moving forward!</div>
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Sunday Bryce and I had brunch at a Richmond favorite, <a href="https://www.lulusrichmond.com/">Lulu's</a> (three words: red velvet waffles) with some friends who are expecting their first baby next month. I couldn't make it to the mama-to-be's shower, so this was our chance to celebrate with them. I wore my new earrings!</div>
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After that, we headed home, got my chair styled and had a lazy Sunday! We watched <i>As Good As It Gets </i>on Netflix that night with Chinese takeout and thoroughly enjoyed it.</div>
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It was a weekend that was one for the books, and one where I truly savored every moment...living out my word for 2019!</div>
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Did you have a good weekend?</div>
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Any fun plans for the weekend ahead?</div>
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I hope you had a wonderful Valentine's Day!<br />
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Ours was super low key this year, as Bryce was traveling all day yesterday. We usually cook a fancy meal together, but instead opted for fancy takeout.<br />
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Today I'm excited to be sharing a recipe for my <b>all time favorite</b> salad: Arugula & Quinoa Salad with Lemon Vinaigrette. Whenever I ask about content y'all want on the blog, the #1 answer is recipes, so I hope you're excited, too!<br />
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This recipe originally came from a website called <i>A Nutritionist Eats</i>, which no longer is online.<br />
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It is light, healthy and delicious and also is great leftover (a true feat for salad). It is my go to when entertaining. In fact, I probably make it about 90% of the time when entertaining, so much so that my friends will expect it.<br />
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<b>Ingredients</b><br />
<u>For the Salad</u><br />
1 cup cooked quinoa <i>(I usually measure 1/4 to 1/3 cup uncooked)</i><br />
6-8 cups arugula <i>(at least one container of arugula, sometimes a little more if for a crowd)</i><br />
1/2 cup almonds, toasted and chopped <i>(almonds are best, but pecans are tasty, too!)</i><br />
<u>For the Vinaigrette</u><br />
1 tbsp lemon zest <i>(about 1 lemon - I zest and then squeeze for juice below)</i><br />
2 tbsp lemon juice <i>(about 1 lemon)</i><br />
3 tbsp olive oil<br />
1 tbsp honey<br />
3 tbs minced shallots <i>(about 1 shallot)</i><br />
salt & pepper <i>(I always prefer kosher salt on my salads)</i><br />
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1. Prepare quinoa as directed and let cool.<br />
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2. Whisk together all vinaigrette ingredients.<br />
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3. Toss quinoa, arugula, and dressing until combined.<br />
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4. Top with almonds <i>(you can toss with the almonds, but I find for entertaining, pouring on top last makes for a prettier presentation)</i>.<br />
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5. Voila, easy peasy! Enjoy!<br />
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Do you have a favorite salad recipe?<br />
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What are your go-tos when entertaining or feeding a crowd?<br />
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Have a great weekend!Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-19856197996876272192019-02-13T08:30:00.000-05:002019-02-13T08:30:00.955-05:002019 Valentine Making PartyHappy Valentine's Day Eve, my friends!<br />
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I've always been a big fan of Valentine's Day, even when I was single. A day devoted to pink, red, hearts, and flowers is a win in my book single or taken!<br />
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Given my love of the holiday, I decided getting the chance to spread love with some of my best girls could be quite fun and hosted my first ever Valentine Making Party in 2014 (see <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2014/02/valentine-making-party.html">here</a>). It was an instant hit with my friends and since has become a bit of a tradition. I hosted a second in 2016 (<a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2016/02/2nd-annual-valentine-making-party.html">here</a>), third in 2018, and this year managed to host two years in a row for the first time with a 2019 edition. I gathered about 10 girlfriends last Thursday night and am excited to share with you today.<br />
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First things first: Supplies! After hosting this party so many times, I didn't even have to purchase supplies this year, though I did notice my stock is getting low on a few items. Here you can go as simple or complex as you'd like. Key elements are construction paper and/or card stock, markers, scissors, and glue. From there you can add to the mix with stickers, paper doilies, pom poms, scrapbook paper, feathers, balloons, and my personal favorite, googly eyes! Really just about any craft supplies can get added to the table, and I try to keep them all in a red, pink, and purple color theme for aesthetic purposes. I also am always sure to put the tablecloth (similar <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dfwtiy7u8e">here</a>) shown above on the table. It is vinyl which wipes clean easily and padded with flannel on the backside. This means people can craft away with no worries about damaging our dining room table! The "love" runner on top was a TJ Maxx find years ago. Finally, another crafting tip is to have trash cans at the ready. I put two on opposite corners for easy access, that you can see in a photo toward the bottom of the post.</div>
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To encourage creativity I also display an inspiration poster. It has a mix of sample valentines that are both cute and cheeky!</div>
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Every year I make champagne punch for the occasion! It is so perfectly pink and festive and a big hit. You top a container of raspberry sherbet with a bottle of champagne, a bottle of ginger ale, and a bag of frozen strawberries. Easy peasy! You can top it off with more champagne to refill as needed throughout the night.</div>
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I also had lemon water, La Croix, and red and white wine available for guests.</div>
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For menu, I replicated the menu from last year's party to a tee. It was easy, crowd pleasing, and quick to pull together on a weeknight. It also has options to satisfy both vegetarians and guests who are gluten free.</div>
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Pimiento cheese is a Southern staple and if you're in Richmond, <a href="https://www.yellowumbrellarva.com/">Yellow Umbrella</a>'s is hands down the best. I always will make an extra trip there for it when entertaining. I serve it with <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dfwt9f7u8e">Pecan Nut Thins</a> which are gluten free, and complement the cheese well. A pre-made veggie tray is easy to kick up a notch with hummus for dipping and pretty presentation.</div>
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I also like to serve a few items that are a bit more hearty so people don't leave hungry. These chicken salad bites have become an entertaining staple since getting the idea from a friend. Just scoop chicken salad on top of granny smith apple slices and top with a pecan. Poppyseed ham biscuits are classic Virginia, and while they're very easy to make, they're even easier to buy premade for weeknight entertaining. These came from Yellow Umbrella, as well. Finally, this arugula salad is my go to for entertaining and a favorite amongst my family and friends (recipe coming Friday!).</div>
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I'm going to try and link up as much of my serveware as I can find online below, but will note that <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dfwunk7u8e">these rectangular platters</a> the chicken salad and ham biscuits are displayed on are a favorite! I received one as a shower gift and have found myself wishing for a second again and again when entertaining. I decided it was time to bite the bullet and literally stopped at <a href="http://fraichehome.net/">Fraiche</a> on my way home from work the day of the party to purchase a second. I tried to keep all serveware to a Beatriz Ball/silver and clear glass theme.</div>
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Last, but certainly not least, no Valentine's Day celebration would be complete without sweet treats! These cookie dough rice krispies (recipe <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2014/09/cookie-dough-rice-krispie-treats.html">here</a>) are a favorite and probably the dessert my friends request most! The rose heart wreath was a CVS find in college and I added the ribbon a couple years ago.</div>
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I upped the ante a little this year by using a cookie cutter to make them into hearts. It took a long time, but I think the cuteness factor was worth it! I make these the night ahead.</div>
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I can't resist showing you a couple snapshots of some additional decor. I didn't go all out this year, but the little Valentine's Day touches sure do bring a smile to my face.</div>
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The felt garland was a Michael's or Target find years ago and is so sweet.</div>
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There's nothing quite like pink tulips in the dead of winter! The pink and red blocks were a Target dollar section find in college and spell "XOXO," "KISS," "HUGS," and "LOVE."</div>
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What I love about this photo is that each of these 4 ladies is a friend from a different facet of my life - I really enjoy bringing different groups together!</div>
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And here's a sampling of our masterpieces! Those googly eyes! Mine is the love bug!</div>
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Do you like making handmade cards or prefer store bought?</div>
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Those who follow along on Instastories know I decided to delay this post to today, since Bryce had a work dinner last night and I chose to spend Wednesday night focused on him rather than blogging.<br />
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I'm excited to share the final post in my bedroom refresh series. Hopefully the next post related to this will be a reveal of the updates in the next few months!<br />
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If you're just tuning in, be sure to check out the other posts in the series:<br />
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<li>Part 1 - <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2019/01/7-interior-designers-to-follow.html">Eight Interior Designers to Follow</a></li>
<li>Part 2 - <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2019/01/beautiful-bowood-bedrooms.html">Beautiful Bowood Bedrooms</a></li>
<li>Part 3 - <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2019/01/bedroom-design-dream.html">Bedroom Design: Dream</a></li>
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In these posts, I started with the inspiration for a bedroom refresh, and worked my way up to a design. Today I'll share the plans I have to incorporate into our bedroom now.</div>
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As mentioned in the Dream post, pattern play is still a must for me, but I decided to go with a bit more neutral palette.</div>
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After playing around a bit, I decided on this combination: <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/deqrgg7u8e">Kravet Xu Garden Veridian</a> (existing shams and bedskirt), this neutral leopard (not sure of fabric source, but have chosen <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/deaesu7u8e">this bolster </a>and <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/deaesc7u8e">these pillows</a> in it), and <a href="http://designs.colefax.com/Design/F2328-01">Colefax and Fowler's Bowood</a>.</div>
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I actually polled on Instagram asking for a vote on this combination and the vote I got was about 60 yay/40 nay. I was surprised, because it's rare to get such a close split. I'm wondering if the Bowood feels too traditional or grandma-ish for some? I also have had some reservations, because while it's timeless; it is definitely on trend right now. I keep seeing it over and over as I scroll Instagram, so while I'm about 90% sure I'm going to stick with the plan as shown here, I'm going to keep thinking on it a little longer. I don't want to go with Bowood because it's in now and then regret it. Plus, I keep coming across other fabrics I love like <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/de5bhn7u8e">this one</a>. <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/de5bih7u8e">this one</a>, <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/de5bjn7u8e">this one</a>, and <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/de5bk47u8e">this one</a>.</div>
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Okay, so assuming I stick to the plan, let me share it! If I end up veering off the Bowood path, the overall plan will remain the same, the Bowood pieces will just be replaced with a different fabric.</div>
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As mentioned on Tuesday, I've wanted to add a bolster to our bed for a while. I excitedly told Bryce my plan was to reduce the number of pillows on the bed, but he wasn't all that impressed decreasing from 7 to 5 (not counting the pillows we sleep on). I originally chose <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/de5bri7u8e">this leopard</a>, but decided the neutral would be more versatile than blush and liked the idea of adding velvet into the mix as a new texture. </div>
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The impetus for the rest of the plan came when we decided to convert our sunroom into Bryce's office. We're still working to complete that update, but have started the process. Namely, we moved the club chairs from the sunroom into our bedroom and the leather chair and plaid ottoman (that never really matched our bedroom) down to the sunroom. This gave me a springboard to create the seating area I've always wanted in our bedroom and do some additional updates to tie the whole space together.</div>
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This is the starting palette:</div>
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The blurry spot in the photo below is a bookshelf I edited out. It's an eyesore providing storage in our 1950s home that has next to none, but it's getting out of our bedroom, so I went ahead and removed for these purposes. Additionally, I had envisioned the chairs flanking the window seat, but the window isn't actually centered in the room, so this layout worked better.</div>
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I played with the idea of keeping our <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/crnmas7u8e">ikat pillows</a> (I do <i>really </i>love the pattern mix) with the bolster, as well as two small bolsters. Neither was quite right...</div>
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I finally settled on the original, simple plan of just the bolster with the existing matelasse euro shams and trellis standard shams. It evokes the calm feeling I'm going for, and I love that it lets the trellis shine.</div>
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Wanting to still incorporate the Bowood to this part of the room to make the overall plan flow, I decided to go with a Bowood tablecloth for my nightstand. The thought is that in a future dream bedroom that will hopefully have the space for matching nightstands, this table could perhaps go into the seating area. You can see a mock up here, with <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/deab397u8e">the throw</a> I mentioned Tuesday (comes in 29 colors!) for an added pop of color.</div>
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Next, I turned my sites to the sitting area. I opted to add leopard pillows to the chairs to match the bolster and <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dea6ny7u8e">a basket</a> beneath the existing table. As mentioned Tuesday, I find that natural fibers bring a cozy feel to spaces, and I have a few baskets similar to this one throughout our home. I even already found the perfect, rectangular shaped one for this space at Home Goods, my go to source for baskets!</div>
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I decided Bowood could have its place in our window seat and couldn't resist a fabulous monogram, as well for the window seat. It adds another pop of color and I really love a monogram in a bedroom. Our bedding doesn't really lend itself to monograms, so this dupioni silk pillow brings the couture monogram look I love in bedrooms. I've also already ordered <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/deaezz7u8e">this pillow</a> for the space opting for my monogram. Bryce and I are not the hugest fans of the couple's monogram (<i>just our preference!</i>) and instead have opted for the more traditional Southern route of using her monogram for linens and his monogram for barware. Because of the size of the window seat, I created a custom order for a toddler sized pillow, and will need to go with 16" pillows in the window seat. </div>
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And just because I'm obsessed with this pillow, I'll show you a close up. Aside from having to go with a smaller size, I chose everything else to be identical to this one shown in terms of monogram style and color selection. I can't wait for it to arrive!</div>
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I plan to order the leopard bolster and pillows next, and as mentioned am going to think a little longer on the Bowood. I'm 90% there, but just want to give it some additional time to be sure, especially considering it's more of a splurge fabric, and that we have a few other little home refresh projects going on right now. </div>
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What colors and style do you have in your bedroom, or want in your dream bedroom?</div>
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Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-73072472036604712122019-01-22T08:30:00.000-05:002019-01-22T08:30:02.230-05:00Bedroom Design: DreamHappy Tuesday, friends!<br />
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Did you have yesterday off for Martin Luther King Jr. Day?<br />
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I always think back to my kindergartners on this holiday. You can read a little about my lessons around the holiday, in <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2014/01/character-not-color.html">this post</a> from my teaching days.<br />
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Now for today's post...Friday turned into Tuesday! I was very excited for my 3 part series posting Monday, Wednesday, Friday, but the end of the last week just got crazy! That said, as I've put the finishing touches on this post, I've decided it's just too much content for one post, so the 3 part series will now be a 4 part series. I hope you're not tired of my bedroom yet!<br />
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As mentioned last week, I've been wanting to refresh our bedroom a little bit over the last several months. Over the last year or so, I've found that I'm drawn more to calm and neutral spaces and want a bit more subdued and serene design in our bedroom. When decorating our current house, the balance is always in choosing where to splurge and where to save. We know we won't be in this house forever, so I try to splurge on items I know I can use down the road; and save on items that may not be a fit for a future home. For example, I'd love to get an updated rug for our bedroom. That said, it just doesn't make sense to splurge on that now, when we may be in a bedroom that needs a bigger or smaller rug once we're in the next house. Pillows and bed linens, however, will "fit" in any bedroom so I have no problem splurging on those now.<br />
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All that to say, it doesn't mean I don't dream of the ideal bedroom, so for today's post I thought it would be fun to start with the dream and then share my reality design in Part 4 on Thursday.<br />
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We'll start with the focal point of a bedroom, the bed and then we'll look at my dream bedroom sitting area.<br />
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Similar to my Gift Guides, I'm linking my rationale for each design element, with links, below the design image. If you want to skip that, you can just scroll through and admire the pictures!<br />
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<b>The Bed: </b>This is our current bed. It is actually 4 posters, but for the purposes of creating this design, it was easier just to crop out the end. I do get a few requests on Instagram for the source of this bed each year. It was handmade by a local company, <a href="http://suters.com/">Suter's</a>, that has been in business since 1839. It is the <a href="http://suters.com/pencilpostbed.aspx">Pencil Post Bed</a> in mahogany.</div>
<b>Linens: </b>All the linens you see are current, with the exception of the bolster pillow. The matelasse quilt and euro shams were from <a href="http://www.garnethill.com/">Garnett Hill</a> and no longer made. I actually hunted for this exact style for a few years when I was still in college. I knew exactly what I wanted and said when I found it, I was going to buy it to have for my "grown up" home someday. I posted about them, actually, in my first few months of blogging in 2011 <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2011/06/my-new-boudoir.html">here</a>. I <i>love </i>is the scalloped edge, the euro shams, and that it's heavier than a coverlet. Garnet Hill, if you're reading here (ha!) please bring the Orleans line back... after nearly 8 years, and Millie, I could use a new quilt! I have found a few similar options here (<a href="https://rstyle.me/n/crnku47u8e">coverlet</a>, <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/crnkuu7u8e">shams</a>), <a href="https://www.ballarddesigns.com/bd/412853?SourceCode=BDG006&intlShippingCtx=US%7CUSD&CAWELAID=120245430000509906&CAGPSPN=pla&CAAGID=57966443421&CATCI=aud-315179064449:pla-326278303596&kclid=9c30f50f-cce6-4c6c-9120-fe6973c70001&gclid=Cj0KCQiA-JXiBRCpARIsAGqF8wX6DnDIQqq3kbCzaEpvUQInONTwKxBaORg05WzQwTT44Ekswh1DXaAaAueTEALw_wcB">here</a>, and <a href="https://www.belk.com/p/modern.-southern.-home.-scalloped-tiles-quilt/0438607599366.html?gclid=Cj0KCQiA-JXiBRCpARIsAGqF8wU8UjUgQyraHoB8DmrQeojMm19kuILOiazQjfDfTMYKugAoHBN3lCYaAqHFEALw_wcB&ef_id=Cj0KCQiA-JXiBRCpARIsAGqF8wU8UjUgQyraHoB8DmrQeojMm19kuILOiazQjfDfTMYKugAoHBN3lCYaAqHFEALw_wcB:G:s&s_kwcid=AL!5203!3!225818794284!!!g!452045536209!&cm_mmc=PLA-Google-Belk_PLA_Geos-BelkDaysBonusBuys-0438607599366">here</a>. I had the trellis standard shams and bedskirts custom made and the fabric is <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/crnk9b7u8e">Kravet Xu Garden Veridian</a>. Finally, the bolster, which I'm planning to order soon was something I had thought of incorporating for a while. Once I saw <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BprWtpAh-TV/">this bedroom</a> by Molly Basile Interiors, I was sold. I was also sold on adding <a href="http://designs.colefax.com/Design/F2328-01">Bowood</a> to the mix! Wanting to add some pattern and texture, while still remaining neutral, I chose <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/deaesu7u8e">this natural leopard</a> in velvet.<br />
<b>Sunburst Mirror: </b>When we first got the four poster bed, Bryce and I were just dating and our home was just his home at the time. The bed felt <i>very </i>traditional to me, so the sunburst mirror and other modern details like the <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/crnmas7u8e">ikat pillows</a> currently on our bed were compromises we made to modernize the space when I moved in. This sunburst mirror was a Martha Stewart for Home Depot steal that was all over the blog world circa 2013ish. It's no longer available, but I've found some similar affordable options <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dex2ve7u8e">here</a>, <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dex2ue7u8e">here</a>, and <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dex2sp7u8e">here</a>. I absolutely love a sunburst above a bed and think it perfectly fits my traditional meets modern style.<br />
<b>Mirrored Nightstands: </b>Given the space constraints of our current bedroom, we're not able to have matching nightstands. Bryce's side of the bed really only has room for a walkway and slim nightstand. My dream is to someday have a pair of mirrored nighstands, though, and <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/deanfg7u8e">these</a> I found for the design come in at a great price point. A close second to mirrored nightstands are <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dex27a7u8e">these raffia nightstands</a> at a not so great price point.<br />
<b>Bedside Lamps: </b>I'm a big fan of symmetry if you can't tell and <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/deanxc7u8e">these splurge lamps</a> are just gorgeous!<br />
<b>Bedside Art: </b>When thinking of art, my brain went to symmetry again. I didn't want botanicals which would compete with the Bowood chintz fabric, or, mirrors that would compete with the sunburst. I eventually decided to opt for framed calligraphy. While not a big fan of word art, I think in a bedroom displaying your wedding vows or readings as art is quite romantic. It's affordable custom art, and you can bring in some color by having the calligraphy done over watercolor as shown here (though my exact dream one would have more of a pale coral watercolor to tie in with the coral throw), or through different ink choices. The calligraphy shown is from my amazing wedding calligrapher <a href="http://virginialucashart.com/">Virginia Lucas Hart</a> (I bet you can spy our custom wedding invites and crest on her <a href="http://virginialucashart.com/past-work/">Past Work page</a>). There are also many options on Etsy: I liked <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dearnw7u8e">this one</a> and <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dearnm7u8e">this one</a>. To frame the calligraphy, I opted for a splurge (since you're saving on the art!) <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/deaqfc7u8e">burlwood gallery frame</a>. I love that the burlwood brings another texture into the room and is a nice contrast to the mirrored nighstands and mahogany bed.<br />
<b>Bedside Accessories: </b>I'm drawn to spaces that feel lived in, so topped my dream nightstands with some accessories. Books for both, of course, a stylish <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/deat4v7u8e">table clock</a> for him, <a href="https://hudsonandvine.com/products/python-vanity-tray-bone-white?gclid=CjwKCAiAyMHhBRBIEiwAkGN6fKcfl8RuednZaJRIXX0x0coV060VmBHNv1d2Ma6mZqASBiX1xZg8CRoCxC4QAvD_BwE">a tray</a> and <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dex3y87u8e">blue and white bud vase</a> for her.<br />
<b>Bowood Bench: </b>Can we talk about this bench!? I'm in love and made it "custom" for this design! Chintz can feel grandma really quick, so the ultra modern lucite bench legs are just what the doctor ordered! A pretty <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/deab397u8e">throw</a> (comes in 29 colors!) atop the bench brings a pop of color I love and feels cozy.<br />
<b>Floor & Walls: </b>Last, but, certainly not least, I have to mention the floor and walls. A cream rug feels soft in a bedroom and <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/deapd37u8e">this wool one</a> is affordable and has great reviews! For fun, I added <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/deaqwj7u8e">grasscloth wallpaper</a> to the walls. I've been dreaming of a grasscloth bedroom since seeing <a href="https://www.onekingslane.com/live-love-home/sue-de-chiara/">the bedroom</a> of the always stylish Sue, the lady behind <a href="https://thezhush.com/">The Zhush</a>.<br />
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The next and final part of my dream design, is a sitting area! A nice little sitting area in a room is wonderful for putting on shoes, enjoying a glass of wine as you get ready or relax with a face mask, and of course, is a place to throw and pile up all your discard clothes (ha!).<br />
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<b>Window Treatments: </b>Let's start with that big window I designed! I couldn't stop with Bowood just on the bench, so my dream bedroom would have Bowood draperies as well. Again, to modernize the chintz, they'd be hung on a fabulous <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dea5rq7u8e">lucite and brass curtain rod</a>! I'd also add a <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/deau7r7u8e">bamboo Roman shade</a>. I love that natural elements like bamboo can really ground a space and also make them feel inviting. It's all about the mix and this dream bedroom should feel traditional and modern, masculine and feminine, formal and inviting. </div>
<b>Club Chairs: </b>These <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dea52n7u8e">swivel chairs</a> are casual chic and a great price point! To top them off, I added a <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dea54u7u8e">leopard velvet pillow</a> to each which matches the bolster on the bed.<br />
<b>Moroccan Pouf: </b>A <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dea6rp7u8e">neutral Moroccan pouf</a> adds some masculinity to the space, and while these poufs aren't all the rage they were a few years ago, I still love them! I'll never forget saving up to order a blush pink one for our sun room ages ago that cost $165...which felt very much like a splurge at the time. It's now in our living room and still a favorite.<br />
<b>Garden Stool: </b>I have <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/danm7u7u8e">this very garden stool</a> in our dining room. I treat blue and white pieces as a neutral throughout our home and think it's the perfect little table between the chairs.<br />
<b>Tortoise Frame: </b>I've admired <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dea8g97u8e">this Kate Spade frame</a> for ages, and am not sure why I haven't ever bit the bullet and ordered it. I go gaga for anything tortoise. It's small size makes it perfect atop the garden stool.<br />
<b>Tocca Candle: </b>As you're sipping wine, propping your feet up on the pouf reading and enjoying a face mask, <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dea7sc7u8e">this lightly scented candle</a> will add to the overall ambiance.<br />
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Now, if you've made it this far, a few final notes:<br />
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<li>On the wall to the right of the bed, adjacent to the sitting area, my dream bedroom would have this ahhh-mazing antique <a href="https://www.1stdibs.com/furniture/storage-case-pieces/secretaires/superb-19th-century-english-bamboo-secretary-bookcase/id-f_6613253/">bamboo secretary</a>!</li>
<li>I'd also add a fabulous dresser to the space. I really love <a href="https://www.wisteria.com/Moorish-Chest_4/productinfo/W1875?quantity=1&color=15">this one</a> and <a href="https://www.wisteria.com/Modern-Gustavian-Chest_5/productinfo/T16286?quantity=1&color=129">this one</a>.</li>
<li>My dream bedroom would also have a dream closet like <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/pin/93097917274249078/">this one</a>, and a dream bath like <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/pin/93097917266832438/">this one</a>.</li>
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Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-62949325996805690312019-01-16T08:30:00.000-05:002019-01-16T09:14:43.085-05:00Beautiful Bowood BedroomsHappy Wednesday, friends!<br />
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If you tuned in on Monday, you'll know from that post <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2019/01/7-interior-designers-to-follow.html">Eight Interior Designers to Follow</a> that I'm doing a three part series on the blog this week culminating with a design plan to refresh our bedroom.<br />
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Monday, I "introduced" you to some seriously talented ladies whose design has been inspiring me, and today I'm sharing a fabric that has been inspiring me.<br />
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First, though, I'll note that my design style has really evolved in the last year or so. While still a fan of bright colors and bold prints, I've found myself more attracted to neutral palettes where bright and bold serve simply as "pops" rather than taking center stage. When thinking to design in my own home, an overly loud space feels a little overwhelming and exhausting. This especially rings true to me when thinking of a bedroom.<br />
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You can take a peek <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BYJyRXAAUEp/">here</a> at my current bedroom decor. Don't get me wrong, the bright ikat paired with the ultra traditional trellis <i>does </i>make my heart flutter, <b>but</b>, what it doesn't do is evoke calm, relax, rest...things I find to be pretty crucial in a bedroom.<br />
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The good news is that our base - white matelasse bedding (similar <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/crnku47u8e">coverlet</a> and <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/crnkuu7u8e">shams</a>) with trellis shams and bedskirt (fabric <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/deqrgg7u8e">here</a>) - are classics that will stand the test of time. The rest are just accessories that can be easily switched out with mood or style evolution over time. And I've given a lot of thought over the last several months to how I want to update those accessories. Don't fret, pattern play will still be be a part of the overall scheme, it will just be more subdued and subtle.<br />
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One pattern I've kept going back to is Colefax and Fowler's classic <a href="http://designs.colefax.com/Design/F2328-01">Bowood</a> chintz. While it's definitely having a moment right now, it is undoubtedly timeless and as the photos below show, truly versatile.<br />
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Let's take a look shall we?<br />
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I'll let the fabric do (most of) the talking from here on out...<br />
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Whens scheming my bedroom plans, accent colors I considered were pink and lilac. I think I've decided on pink, but this bedroom belonging to the stylish <a href="https://www.instagram.com/juliahengel/">Julia Engel</a> does lilac <i>so </i>well.</div>
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I love, love, love the Bowood headboard and bedskirt and those bed linens are so cute! </div>
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The Bowood headboard and canopy! The luxe velvet pillow! The lamp that looks nearly identical to my bedside lamp! Swoon!</div>
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Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-13786060879494369292019-01-14T08:30:00.000-05:002019-01-16T09:13:31.594-05:00Eight Interior Designers to FollowHappy Monday friends!<br />
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I hope you had a wonderful weekend. Ours was a great balance of work, fun, and relaxation.<br />
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Today I'm excited to share Post 1 in a 3 part series for the week.<br />
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This time of year, my creative wheels always start turning in regards to our home. The New Year brings a desire to not only clean out, but refresh our home.<br />
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When pondering home updates, Instagram is my favorite place to go to find design inspiration these days. I love shelter magazines and scrolling Pinterest, but I like the personal connection Instagram brings. I thought today I'd share some of the designers whose style has been beautifying my Instagram feed and provides just the right dose of inspiration.<br />
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First up is Nicola Bathie. Talk about living a life of beauty and style!</div>
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Nicola provides just as much fashion as she does design goodness. She also </div>
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If I had to think of a word to describe Amy's design it would be effortless.</div>
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Her work comes together in a way that just works and feels effortless- equally </div>
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parts inviting and chic. You'll also swoon over her <a href="https://www.amyberryhome.com/collections/dog-beds">dog beds</a> which I've been</div>
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which makes me think just like everything else, design is BIG in Texas!</div>
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swoon over design, but also love that Tori keeps it real and makes me laugh.</div>
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I'm not sure why it took me so long, but I just discovered Paloma after flipping through </div>
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her new book <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/demhgc7u8e">Dream Design Live</a> in Barnes & Noble this fall. I received her book for </div>
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Christmas and have already read it cover to cover. She provides lots of practical tips and I love the "Live" section at the end with tips for entertaining and hosting. </div>
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She also is opening <a href="https://www.instagram.com/shoppalomaandco/">a shop</a> (this week!) you should check out!</div>
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As shown here, Katie can do a monogram like no other! Her</div>
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Be sure to tune in Wednesday and Friday, where I'll share a bit more about my path to refresh our bedroom. Today featured some of my design role models whose work inspires me. The "Dream" stage in Paloma's book. Wednesday will be a look at a fabric inspiration, and finally Friday, we'll veer into "Design" phase. Over the next couple months, hopefully I'll be able to tune in with photos of an updated bedroom for "Live."</div>
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Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-81903026872218569992019-01-09T08:30:00.000-05:002019-01-09T08:30:10.173-05:00Word of the Year: SAVORHappy Hump Day, readers!<br />
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Nine days in and I'm feeling really good about this upcoming year and am excited to see what's in store.<br />
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Blogging can be so cathartic and sharing my reflections of the past year and intentions for the new year here is a really good exercise. One of my all time favorite quotes is "I cannot advise that we remain as we are." by Socrates. This idea of constant improvement really drives me, and reflection and intention are an important part of growth.<br />
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So before I dive into my word of 2019, <b>savor</b>, I want to take a moment to reflect on 2018, which was truly one of the best years of my life.<br />
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My word last year was intentional, with a particular focus in the areas of family and career. I shared that I felt as if I was on a precipice, the end of a high dive, and I wanted to make sure my jumps into the next phase of my life were the right ones.<br />
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In terms of career, I knew I had landed in the right profession, but I hadn't yet found just the right fit. I spent a good bit of time job searching last year and was relentless in my search. I knew I needed to land somewhere that had lasting power, and even turned down a few really great job offers, so that I could ultimately say yes to my dream job. I've been in my role now for nearly 9 months and really feel I have "landed." I have room to grow, stretch, and challenge myself; a boss who encourages creativity and risk; and a reasonable workload. Additionally, I have incredible flexibility, which was a huge deciding factor during my job search, and will be crucial once we have bambinos.<br />
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Which leads me to my next point: family. This time last year, we knew we weren't quite ready to start a family, and wanted to focus on being intentional in a few areas to prepare for babes in the not so distant future: finances, spontaneity, and health. Finding a job where I could see myself as a working mom was one box I knew I needed to check before thinking about adding a baby to the mix; and my new role also fortunately was a nice title and salary jump. As newlyweds last year, we also felt the need to "catch up" post-wedding and honeymoon, and also figure out what financial path to take as a married couple. This wasn't a huge curve ball, as we had been living together for a few years, but it's something we're still working at and tweaking to find the right balance. Next, we knew we wanted to take some more time to be selfish and spontaneous. We planned a somewhat last minute trip to England last year when opportunity struck (our friends, <a href="https://www.attentiontodarling.com/">Erin</a> and Ryan, are living in London temporarily). We drove to the Eastern Shore on a whim to see a 4:00 am rocket launch! We said "No thanks!" (countless) times to our meal plan and opted for Mexican and margaritas instead. Finally, in terms of health, we wanted to build habits to make us as healthy as possible before parenthood. I'm excited to say I'm starting 2019 about 14 pounds lighter than I started 2018, but more importantly I'm more physically fit and have a good balance in my diet. Sleep is still a health area we need to improve on, but hey, maybe, we're just preparing ourselves for the sleep deprivation that will come with children.<br />
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Okay, now onto 2019. That "moment" to reflect on 2018 got a bit wordy. Hopefully you're still with me, because I am PUMPED to jump into my word for this year!<br />
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<b>savor </b><i>(v): </i>to delight in; enjoy</div>
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I've shared on here before that I'm Type A, a planner, a doer. I don't necessarily think those are bad traits, but I do find myself sometimes focusing so much on what's next, that I'm not fully present and enjoying what's now. I've even noticed a trend where in the second half of a month, I'll often say "I can't wait for X MONTH to be over." Not because it's a hard month, or there's something I'm looking forward to the next month, simply because I feel like I want to just keep going. I also sometimes struggle (though I've gotten much better) to let go of things that are outside of my control, or to accept when things don't go according to <i>my </i>plan and timeline. When I was in therapy in college, my therapist once said to me something like "Allie, I know you can explain all your feelings, analyze them, tell me why you should or shouldn't feel a certain way; but I want you to focus instead on just being in the feeling." </div>
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For all these reasons, I knew I wanted this year to be about, quite frankly, just being. I considered the words breathe and serenity, but they felt too zen. I considered faith or trust, but both of those have connotations that strayed from my meaning. I also thought about gratitude or contentment, but they weren't quite right either.</div>
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As I continued and continued to go back to the drawing board what kept coming to mind was our recent New Year's Eve. We stayed in and early in the night, I was sitting by the fire sipping bubbly, Millie was next to me, Bryce was nearby in the kitchen, and Van Morrison was playing on the radio. In that moment all I could feel was pure joy. Similarly, when I think back to our trip to England, one of, if not the most, favorite moments was at Stonehenge when we sat in the grass, paused, and took in the rolling green hills, blue skies, grazing sheep, and wonder of the monument. The moments where I'm most happy, content, joyful are the moments were I am truly stopping, breathing, and savoring the here and now. </div>
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So as I think to and celebrate all I achieved in 2018, in 2019 I want to focus less on what's next and more on seizing the moment. Achievements will come, of this I'm sure, but what's most important is savoring the experiences - big and small, happy and sad, easy and tough - along the way.</div>
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Happy New Year, friends!<br />
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Have a great day!Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-17173789339765235552019-01-04T08:30:00.000-05:002019-01-04T08:30:02.384-05:002018 in 12 PicturesHappy Friday friends!<br />
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I hope you had a wonderful holiday season and your 2019 is off to a fabulous start!<br />
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I always feel energized and inspired in the new year, and this year is no different.<br />
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I'm pumped for 2019and am hoping to keep the blog flow going!<br />
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Last year, you may remember I posted <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2018/01/2017-in-12-pictures.html">2017 in 12 Pictures</a>. It was a fun way to recap the year and I thought I'd do it again this year.<br />
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2018 was one for the books, so let's jump right in!<br />
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<b>JANUARY</b></div>
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We had a quiet, dry January, which I'm repeating again this year! </div>
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<b>FEBRUARY</b></div>
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I hosted my third Valentine making party and made these </div>
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<b>MARCH</b></div>
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We enjoyed a beautiful Sunday with the cutest</div>
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<b>APRIL</b></div>
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We enjoyed a bountiful peony season!</div>
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<b>JUNE</b></div>
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<b>JULY</b></div>
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We made our way to Bryce's hunt club for a couples weekend.</div>
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<b>AUGUST</b></div>
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We made our way to Washington, D.C. for a day date that started at <a href="https://lediplomatedc.com/">Le Diplomate</a></div>
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I partnered with <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2018/10/fall-with-serena-lily.html">Serena & Lily</a> to set what might be my prettiest tablescape yet.</div>
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Full post <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dd8fji7u8e">here</a>.</div>
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<b>NOVEMBER</b></div>
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Wow, what a month November was! I had such a hard time choosing just one photo:</div>
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Turkey Trot, hosting our first Thanksgiving, and turning 30! 30 won out...I celebrated all</div>
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<b>DECEMBER</b></div>
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The most magical (12") snow came right in the midst of the holiday hustle and bustle</div>
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and provided just the respite we needed! And boy, snow is even more beautiful at Christmastime!</div>
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Wow, 2018 sure was good to me!</div>
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I can't wait to see what 2019 has in store, and will be posting deeper reflections and my word of the year next week. Last year's word of the year in <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2018/01/word-of-year-intentional.html">this post</a>.</div>
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What are the highlights from your year?</div>
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Have a great weekend!</div>
Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-78682490544193824432018-12-21T08:30:00.000-05:002018-12-21T11:21:09.858-05:00Holiday House TourTGIF friends!<br />
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This is my last day at work before Winter Break.<br />
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I actually checked the last item off my to do list yesterday afternoon, so should have a low key day of housekeeping in the office.<br />
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I'm excited to share a holiday house tour with you today.<br />
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I find myself decorating less every year. I focus on the quality over quantity and give the most attention to our living and dining room which makes the most impact.<br />
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So without futher adieu, come on in!<br />
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I've made ornament wreaths year after year (DIY <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2013/12/our-halls-are-decked-diy-ornament-wreath.html">here</a>), but they always inevitably end breaking before the next Christmas, so this year I used this store bought version I bought my first year of college to decorate my dorm room!</div>
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Once inside, we'll start with the living room which is the first room you enter through the front door.<br />
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We've moved our tree around quite a bit over the years and put it int his spot for the first time last year and it's a winner! It's in a focal spot being right next to the fireplace and stockings, but is tucked away enough that it doesn't feel overly intrusive.<br />
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I frequently get asked the source of our stockings, and they are from <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddsqz57u8e">Mark & Graham</a>. They don't appear online anymore, but I'm guessing they're just out of stock. They do have them year after year, though! The mirror (c/o) can be found <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddsq3i7u8e">here</a> and trumpet vases <a href="https://www.frontgate.com/blue-ming-flared-trumpet-vase/761128?searchTerm=SUGGESTION%20%E2%80%93%20Blue%20Ming%20Flared%20Trumpet%20Vase">here</a>.</div>
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This <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddsq9q7u8e">zebra pillow</a> remains a favorite year after year and I love him so much I usually keep him out through January! I'm also late to the party, but discovered the goodness of <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddsrc57u8e">Nest "Holiday"</a> this year!</div>
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This nook is so cozy! I bought the little <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddsrec7u8e">"Merry Christmas Y'all" pillow</a> our first Christmas dating and it makes me smile every time I see it! All those beautiful Christmas cards of family and friends make me smile, too!</div>
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This vignette sadly isn't quite what I'd like it to be. Paper whites are planted in the cachepot but have yet to bloom! I planted them in a clear vase last year and had great luck. Tried the blue and white this year and while they've sprouted a bit, I'm worried they're not going to fully bloom. So just picture this image with beautiful paper whites!</div>
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Next up is the dining room, which I brightened up this year with a pretty pink poinsettia! I think it suits the new dining room decor!</div>
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This reindeer that was a Michael's find continues to be a favorite year after year.</div>
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I couldn't resist adding a little holiday cheer to the bar. Santa looks ready to tie one on!</div>
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There are a few Christmas touches throughout other rooms, I'll share, but as mentioned I make things more and more simple every year!</div>
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This wooden tree was a fun find at the <a href="https://www.vmfa.museum/home-mobile/">VMFA</a> after Christmas a couple years ago. My favorite part is that it comes apart into two pieces that lay flat for storage!</div>
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How adorable is this black lab pillow my mom got us this year? I cut the tag off and try as I might have not been able to track him down online!<br />
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Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-22986404550664705142018-12-18T08:30:00.000-05:002018-12-18T08:30:11.829-05:00Last Minute Prime Gift GuideHappy December 18, friends!<br />
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As mentioned last week, we've got a little bit of wrapping left and still need to get our Christmas cards out. I ordered through <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddm25x7u8e">Minted</a>, a little later than intended, and our cards were supposed to arrive yesterday. Well, last night I got an email saying they were delayed 1-2 days. According to tracking, they should arrive by 10:30 am today; and while I'm disappointed, I have to say Minted is handling this in the best way possible. They refunded all shipping charges and also refunded me 30% of the order total. Fingers crossed they make it today so I can get them signed, sealed, delivered!<br />
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I decided last week it would be fun to put together one more bonus gift guide: a Last Minute Amazon Prime Gift Guide! Being that Amazon Prime is all about practicality, I figured I'd make the focus on practical gifts. Being 30 now, I find myself feeling very adult (tehehe) and wanting practical more and more. As always, most of these are things I currently own and love, or things I would want for myself. Just as I did with my other guides, I've included commentary about each item below the guide.<br />
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And if you haven't yet, be sure to check out my other 2 gifts guides. There are Prime picks in both, and many other items that are still available, on sale, and guaranteed for holiday delivery:<br />
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmy447u8e">handbag organizer</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmzpi7u8e">room freshener</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmz5d7u8e">moleskin notebook</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmxfk7u8e">mini steamer</a> /</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmxjb7u8e">Salad Spinner</a>: </b>How did I live 28 years without a salad spinner? This salad spinner is one of our most used wedding gifts. I absolutely hate cleaning salad greens, because it's so hard to get them dry after and this spinner makes it a breeze!</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmwjh7u8e">Festive Dog Collar</a>: </b>This holiday plaid collar is so cute! The brand is Up Country and Millie has had <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmwpx7u8e">this zebra one</a> and <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmwp37u8e">matching leash</a> (not available thru Prime), since she graduated from her little pink puppy collar. It has been on her swimming in the river, through mud, and more and is still in great shape. </div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmxtj7u8e">Rosebud Lip Balm</a>: </b>This lip balm has been in my gift guides year after year and for good reason. I've been using it for probably 10 years now and always have this tube in my purse, and <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddm37g7u8e">the jar </a>on my nightstand.</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmxm27u8e">L'occitane Hand Cream</a>: </b>Good hand cream is a necessity during the cold winter months and this cream is so decadent, and doesn't leave your palms feeling greasy or clammy (my pet peeve with most hand lotions).</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmxca7u8e">Amazon Fire Stick</a>: </b>My dad gifted us one of these years ago and we use it almost exclusively when watching TV...we really do need to cancel our cable. You can get so many streaming apps through it, and we use it to stream Pandora whenever we want to play music, as well. Bonus points if you gift an <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddm39k7u8e">Amazon Prime membership</a> with it.</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddm2dc7u8e">Fitbit</a>: </b>Bryce just purchased a Fitbit on Cyber Monday and has been loving it. The new ones sync with your phone for texts and the sleep tracking has been motivating us both to get more shut eye.</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmxvf7u8e">Dry Shampoo</a>: </b>I've tried several different dry shampoos, at both high and low price points, and this one is <i>hands down </i>the BEST! It also has a nice fresh scent that isn't overpowering. I'd love for my stocking to be stuffed with Perfect Hair Day!</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmymt7u8e">Coravin Wine System</a>: </b>This has been high on my personal wish list ever since seeing blogger Being Bridget rave about it on Instagram (see her Stories tutorial <a href="https://www.instagram.com/stories/highlights/18005697937078824/">here</a>). She's had hers for 6 years and it enables you to pour a glass of wine without unsealing the cork...meaning you could make a bottle last for months! Perfect for nights when Bryce is having a beer and I want just a glass of wine.</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmypr7u8e">Champagne Stopper</a>: </b>If a Coravin is out of your price range, this champagne stopper is a great stocking stuffer to help extend the life of your bubbly!</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmzmy7u8e">Garlic Peeler</a>: </b>We eat A LOT of garlic and this little tool is so handy! It enables you to peel garlic with just a quick roll, avoiding the smell that can get stuck in your nails when trying to peel by hand. Great stocking stuffer!</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmybv7u8e">Herb Scissors</a>: </b>Another favorite kitchen tool that I actually included in my Ladies Gift Guide last year. Herbs can be difficult to chop and these scissors make it quick and easy. The only time I bother to actually chop now is when I'm preparing herbs to look pretty as a garnish. </div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddm2hv7u8e">Fatwood</a>: </b>We burn a lot of wood fires all winter. In fact, I may need to do another ladie's fire building tutorial on Stories now that I can create it as a highlight reel. Fatwood is key to getting a good fire going. Speaking of fires, not Amazon Prime, but <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddm43i7u8e">this log carrier</a> is one of Bryce's favorite Christmas gifts I've given him, and comes with free 2-day shipping if you order by December 20!</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmw637u8e">Cordless Vacuum</a>: </b>One of my favorite bloggers is Megan of <a href="https://www.holycitychic.com/">Holy City Chic</a>. She raves about this vacuum for clean up in between deep vacuuming; and swears it's far better than its Dyson counterpart which is much more pricey. It also has a handheld detachable vacuum. When my parents were asking for gift ideas for Bryce, I was tempted to tell them he really wanted this, haha! I think I may buy it with some Christmas money.</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmx6f7u8e">Pasta Measuring Fork</a>: </b>I have a very similar pasta fork, which try as I might I couldn't find online <i>anywhere! </i>What I love about it is that the holes are used for measuring spaghetti servings. I never know how much to cook, so it's very useful. This <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmx5z7u8e">little tool</a> also does the same job.</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmy447u8e">Handbag Organizer</a>: </b>I ordered this when my Goyard arrived this fall and absolutely love it. It's the perfect size for any large tote bag, and keeps me so organized while also protecting the liner of my bag from stains. You can see how it fits inside my Goyard GM <a href="https://www.liketoknow.it/ltk/3JAcyRsI28ejXDvz0CUh7I">here</a> (similar size to LV Neverful MM or Longchamp Large Les Pliages), and what I love about the size is that there's still room in my bag for a laptop, book, gym clothes, etc around the organizer.</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmzpi7u8e">Room Freshener</a>: </b>I love to spray this on our mattress and pillows when changing the sheets. It would be great to spray on linens in a guest room, as well, to make a room that doesn't get used so often smell fresh.</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmz5d7u8e">Moleskin Notebook</a>: </b>Day to day at work, I tend to use small notepads and legal pads, but always have a Moleskin handy for when I'm going to a Board meeting or donor meeting where I want to come across as a little more professional. Love the blue color!</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmxfk7u8e">Mini Steamer</a>: </b>This is another top pick from our wedding registry! I don't iron. The 2-3 times a year I need something ironed, I have Bryce do it. This gets me through the rest of the year and is the perfect size for travel. It heats up in a flash, and also helps me to extend wear of items between dry cleans.</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddm2af7u8e">Greek Key Doormat</a>: </b>I always use a coir doormat- they're durable and stylish. This Greek key style is a classic that will match just about any decor. </div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddmwsa7u8e">Boxer Briefs</a>: </b>Those who follow along on Instastories have heard all the hype about these boxer briefs. In fact they're the ONLY thing Bryce asked for this year! Would be perfectly practical for the hard to shop for man.</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddm2fz7u8e">Table Topics</a>: </b>My mother-in-law has these and they're so fun for dinner parties or just family get togethers to energize the conversation. I might even order them for Bryce and I...sometimes we'll take turns asking each other random questions and this would probably make it easier and more interesting.</div>
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Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-16761590268399713662018-12-17T08:30:00.000-05:002018-12-17T11:52:06.607-05:00Tips for Holiday HostingHappy Monday readers!<br />
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8 days...can you believe it? Christmas is nearly here!<br />
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Those who follow along on <a href="http://instagram.com/alexandrabeeblog">Insta</a> know that we hosted my family for Thanksgiving this year.<br />
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While I've had a lot of practice hosting dinner parties, book clubs, and other gatherings, hosting your family for a large holiday meal is a little different. I picked up some tips and tricks this first go around and I thought I'd share today, given that you may be hosting your family in the coming week for a Christmas meal!<br />
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These aren't rocket science by any means, but I hope you'll find a tip you've never thought of before in today's post.<br />
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Choose your menu with preparation in mind. What I mean by that is to consider: What items can be prepared, or even fully cooked in advance? What are the various temperatures items need to be baked at? How much space is in the fridge for items you prepare in advance or need to be chilled? Are there dietary restrictions to be aware of?<br />
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For example, we chose to skip a turkey and the intimidation factor it brings. Instead we opted to get a honey baked ham (pre-sliced) that would just need to be warmed up and to roast a chicken. We also included baked brie as an app, homemade yeast rolls (recipe coming soon!), a brussel sprouts salad (recipe <a href="https://pinchofyum.com/bacon-and-brussel-sprout-salad">here</a>), sweet potato casserole (recipe <a href="https://www.chef-in-training.com/sweet-potato-casserole-thanksgiving-side-dish/">here</a>), and French silk pie (recipe <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2011/10/french-silk-pie.html">here</a>).<br />
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The night before, we baked the pies, prepped the sweet potato casserole so all it needed was baking, and also shredded the brussel sprouts. The morning of, we baked the rolls so all they'd need was to be reheated at mealtime; the rest we were able to do in the afternoon before guests arrived at 5:00 pm (a time I chose so we'd have all day to prepare and not feel rushed).<br />
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We finalized this menu about 3 weeks in advance and shared it with my family, asking others to also bring a dish to share.<br />
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The first item we tackled was seating. The most we can fit at our dining table is 6, and that's a tight squeeze. We had 9 coming, so opted to flip our dining table lengthwise and add a card table at the end. I set both tables with white linens and a matching table runners to make the tables feel cohesive and put similar flower arrangements in blue and white on both tables. (Speaking of flowers, magnolia is your best friend for holiday arrangements. It is so easy and makes a beautiful statement!)</div>
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Another staging tip is to have a few versatile serving platters pulled out and handy in advance. I keep our serving platters in the corner cabinet of our dining room which was not the most accessible with the Thanksgiving table set up. Knowing that some of the "pot luck" items may need platters, I pulled a few out in advance and had them within reach in our pantry. One item I realized we were short on, in the moment, however was serving utensils! While people will sometimes come prepared with serving platters for the food they bring, many people don't bring serving utensils. We were able to improvise with wooden spoons and such, but I do plan to buy a couple more serving utensils between now and our next holiday hosting.</div>
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Have a clean up and leftovers plan. This may be a no brainer, but clean up as much as you can as you prepare the meal and also be sure to have an empty dishwasher in advance of your guests' arrival. One of my tips, that sounds silly, but I've gotten compliments on, is to have a pretty dish towel ready for whatever last minute non-dishwasher safe dishes you may throw in the sink. I didn't do this at Thanksgiving, but at other parties in the past, I've simply draped the dishtowel over the sink to hide the mess from guests. In terms of clean up, Bryce and I don't have a problem leaving dirty dishes in the sink overnight (I know some folks can't sleep if a dish is left in the sink...this is not us!). We typically will do whatever clean up is absolutely necessary at the end of the night (ie: putting food away, loading the dishwasher, soaking dishes, etc), but then will tackle the rest, and putting dishes away in the morning. One of my favorite moments after hosting an event is sitting down on the couch with a glass of wine after clean up!</div>
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The final tip is to enjoy yourself! The holidays are all about time spent with family, so do as much prep work in advance, and choose a menu that allows you time outside the kitchen with your guests. And at the end of the day, if you do have a recipe flop or snafu, it makes for a great story!</div>
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Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-13911902946576089732018-12-14T08:30:00.000-05:002018-12-15T02:34:03.826-05:00Friday 5: Holiday Jammies EditionHappy Friday friends!<br />
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T-11 days until Christmas...are you ready?<br />
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I'm nearly there: Just waiting on our Christmas cards to arrive so I can send them and gift wrapping. Bryce and I always enjoy wrapping together; believe it or not he makes the best bows! I've finally hit the stage at work, too, where all the preparation for year-end giving is coming together, things are slowing down, and I'm able to see the fruits of my labor. Winter break starts December 21 and I can't wait to have some down time to wrap up 2018!<br />
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One final thing I checked off my to-do list was finding a pair of Christmas jammies!<br />
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I mentioned in my Ladies Gift Guide (<a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2018/11/2018-holiday-gift-guide-ladies.html">here</a>) that pajamas are one of my favorite gifts to receive and decided to gift myself a festive pair this year. The hard part was choosing...<br />
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This set was my top choice, but try as I might I couldn't justify the price tag. Maybe next year? Or an after Christmas sale? They do have sets for the whole family which was tempting (mens <a href="https://rstyle.me/~aJOdm">here</a>, kids <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddhaay7u8e">here</a>, pups <a href="https://rstyle.me/~aJOdq">here</a>). Also love <a href="https://rstyle.me/~aISqc">this champagne set</a> by the same brand that would get you through New Year's Eve (have <i>always </i>wanted to host a fancy NYE pajama dinner party)!</div>
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Another family friendly, albeit out of my price range, option were these zebra pajamas! Someone please buy these so I can live vicariously through you! (mens <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddhage7u8e">here</a>, kids <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddhaga7u8e">here</a>). Also love <a href="http://mele%20kalikimaka%20is%20the%20thing%20to%20say%20on%20a%20bright%20hawaiian%20christmas%20day/">this palm print short set</a> by the same brand...maybe you could have a Hawaiian Christmas theme? "Mele Kalikimaka is the thing to say on a bright Hawaiian Christmas day..."</div>
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These don't scream Christmas, more woodland forest, but that means you can get even more mileage from them, right? Still a little pricey, but we're getting warmer and I also love <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dc22a97u8e">these red tigers</a> (again not totally Christmas, but red..hello!), and this <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddhapq7u8e">"bearry holiday" set</a> that I actually could probably convince Bryce to wear in the <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddhaqp7u8e">men's version</a>. On the family note, there's not much cuter than <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddharz7u8e">a smooshy baby</a> in Roberta Roller Rabbit!</div>
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Woohoo! We've finally gotten to a price point under $100! I own a pair of P.J. Salvage flannel pajamas and they are oh so cozy, and come in so many fun prints! Also love <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddhazh7u8e">this flannel pair </a>that come in 3 Christmas patterns under $50!</div>
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Woohoo! We have a winner...and for under $40 with free holiday shipping if you add a little more to your cart to push the total up to $50 (I recommend adding <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/ddhbgz7u8e">this</a>)!!! I actually ordered them in the "NYC Cityscape" print and am surprising my mother-in-law with a matching pair to wear on Christmas and reminisce to our New York City Christmas trip last year! I also couldn't resist ordering a pair in the pink stripe for post-Christmas wear. Prior to ordering, I had actually tried these on in store, and they are so incredibly soft and run true to size. I can't wait for their arrival!</div>
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Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-12750608321175576012018-11-28T09:00:00.000-05:002018-11-28T10:00:25.776-05:0030!Happy November 28, 2018...aka my 30th birthday!<br />
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It's crazy to think when I started this blog in 2011, I was just 22, still in college, and a few months shy of meeting Bryce. It's been with me for most of my 20s and huge milestones like graduation, teaching, leaving teaching, a new career, Millie, an engagement and wedding (Sheesh! I'm so behind on getting y'all these posts!), and more; so it only feels fitting to document this milestone. I'll start this post recapping my 30th birthday cocktail party that was a couple weekends ago on the 17th and then end with 30 thoughts. Thoughts on turning 30, life lessons, random tidbits, and more.<br />
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Now buckle your seatbelts, you're in for a long ride with this post!<br />
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Before jumping into the cocktail party, I have to recap you on the night before. Bryce's hunt club is not far from <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wallops_Flight_Facility">NASA's Wallops Flight Facility</a>, and from the dock in their marsh there is a clear view of the rocket launch pad. Bryce has always dreamed of seeing a rocket launch, but they are often in the middle of the night during the week, and also frequently get cancelled due to weather. The morning of the 16th, the day before my party, Bryce told me a rocket was being launched that night/morning at 4:01 am- weather forecasts were clear and there was a 95% chance of launch. He asked if I'd be game to go. I think he was shocked when I said yes! I told him I had plans to get a mani pedi after work, so if he would get Millie packed and loaded, we could head out as soon as I got home and had a few minutes to throw some yoga pants in a bag. I also requested that we stop and get brunch at my favorite Virginia Beach brunch spot <a href="https://www.facebook.com/LeapingLizardCafe/">Leaping Lizard Cafe</a> on the way home, and that we get back with enough time for me to run before my blow out at 4:30. (Spoiler Alert: I skipped the run, but ran 8 miles the next day!) Y'all, what an experience it was! How amazing to see the sky light up and a rocket launch all the way up into space. Not to mention the rush we got from the spontaneity of it all. We've talked about embracing this time pre-kids to be spontaneous and it really inspired me to be more adventurous day to day! Here are a few photos recapping, and you can see more from the adventure on my Insta highlight reel <a href="https://www.instagram.com/stories/highlights/17937883873213747/">here</a>.<br />
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The alarm was set for 3:30 am, we got up, bundled up, and headed down to the marsh!</div>
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We followed along on Facebook Live in advance of the launch hearing cool tidbits (like the fact that the rocket had materials to study crystals that could teach us more about Parkinson's) and the final countdown. </div>
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We went back to sleep from about 4:30 to 8:00 am, and then took in some final marsh air before heading home with a pitstop for brunch along the way. I really truly don't think there's any place more beautiful than Virginia.<br />
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So now onto the partay! My mother-in-law, RoseMarie, was so sweet to host a cocktail party. While I didn't get as many detail photos as I would have liked, I did get some great photos throughout the night!<br />
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Yes, I did have a piece of each. The chocolate (recipe <a href="https://www.foodandwine.com/recipes/double-chocolate-layer-cake">here</a>) was my favorite!</div>
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Heavy hors d'oeuvres (also all homemade by RoseMarie) were served buffet style and passed. On the buffet, guests enjoyed beef tenderloin with grainy mustard, horse radish, and rolls; ham salad biscuits; artichoke dip, and chicken salad tarts. Mini crabcakes, ramekin-sized pastas in the pinks, and cranberry brie bites were passed. Cheese straws were also available at the bar for munching.</div>
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I always enjoy the opportunity to bring separate groups of friends together, and the party included childhood friends, work friends, college friends, and more. Here are some snapshots with some of my guests.</div>
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With my mama!</div>
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hope our kids are as cute as B was!</div>
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Blowout Buddy...</div>
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I met this lady a decade ago when we were 20!</div>
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Hostess with the Mostest! I certainly hit the jackpot </div>
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when it comes to mother-in-laws.</div>
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Gal Pals</div>
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feel like a million bucks!</div>
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Finally, you can't have a birthday post without some pictures recapping the birthday song and blowing out the candles!<br />
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And now, if you've made it this far, let's jump into 30 thoughts and tidbits as I embark on 30. I'll try to mix up serious, random, and fun so it doesn't get too heavy along the way.<br />
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1. I recently had a phone conversation with a donor who turns 70 today. I commented that we both had milestone birthdays coming up on the 28th. He chuckled and when I told him I'd be 30, he told me to watch out. Turning 70 seemed like a big one, but the only other milestone birthday that had hit him hard was 30. Today, luckily, doesn't feel hard at all. I have a feeling this next decade might be my best and I'm excited to feel more like an "official" adult. Though, I do think 31 is going to hit me hard.<br />
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2. While I don't feel like 30 is old at all, I have cracked myself up a little bit on the vanity side of things. I've thought "I'm nearly 30, I can't wear this" a few times trying on clothes; took my hair back to a blonder shade from my youth during my last appointment; recently gasped upon discovering and then plucked a gray eyebrow hair; and told Bryce I wanted Botox to tackle forehead wrinkles (started using <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dcngyy7u8e">this peel</a> about a month ago instead).<br />
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3. Your twenties are such a decade of growth, learning, and change. I started my twenties single and in school and am ending it married with a dog seven years into the workforce. What's funny, is while my early twenties may have been a time of less responsibility, I'm actually ending my twenties with more of a carefree spirit. I'm still Type A, but I think a lot of my growth this last decade has been in learning to let go, and to choose where to focus my Type A energies.<br />
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4. I was born the Monday after Thanksgiving, two weeks early, and my dad, godfather, and other family friends worked tirelessly to finish an addition which included my nursery while my mom was in the hospital with me. Talk about nesting!<br />
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5. What I'm looking forward to most in this new decade is starting a family. I'm actually tearing up writing this, because being a mom has been my greatest dream all along. In fact, so much of my life's path up to this point has been chosen with a focus of that in mind. For example, when I started college, I had a serious interest in International Relations and working for the UN (I had traveled to the Hague my senior year of high school for the International Model UN), but realized I didn't want to live or raise a family in a big city like DC, New York, or abroad. While I don't regret a thing about my path, and think I've landed in literally the perfect career and spot, I'm glad to be ending my twenties with more a view of having both a career and motherhood.<br />
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6. On the flip side, if you had asked me in my early twenties my life goals, I would have told you I wanted to 3 kids, two boys and a baby girl, and have them all between the ages of 28 and 32. The closer I've gotten to 30, the more I've realized babies can wait a little longer.<br />
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7. I've always been bubbly, but the older I get, the more I realize just how important and powerful positivity is. I do my very best to always find the silver lining and also have learned it's okay to unapologetically let go of commitments, relationships, and things that bring you down.<br />
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8. Growing up my grandma always got my birthday cake from Westhampton Pastry Shop, a Richmond classic that is right down the street from our home now. Around the time that I was 8 or 9, I opted for ice cream cake instead which she would get from Baskin Robbins. In high school, I made the switch to Dairy Queen cakes (yummmm...cookie dough blizzard cake), and now I usually just get a special birthday dessert wherever I choose to go for my birthday dinner.<br />
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9. In addition to personal growth and development in my twenties, my palate also grew. At 20, barely any vegetables crossed my lips and now as I write this post I'm eating broccoli and am not picky at all! I still am not the biggest fan of fruits, though.<br />
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10. Bryce's favorite thing about me is that I'm "fiery" and I love that he loves that in me. I can't to be more fiery 30 years from now at 60 and even more fiery another 30 years after that as an old lady when I (hopefully) reach 90.<br />
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11. My favorite childhood birthday parties were my 9th, which was a carnival theme with games, face paint and my favorite dinner of chicken fingers, Velveeta mac & cheese, and Coca Cola in glass bottles; and my 12th which was a sleepover and we all went to Fuddurcker's for dinner with milkshakes.<br />
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12. I feel most at peace when I'm on the water and have always joked to Bryce that if I ever wrote a novel (ha!) a theme would be the restorative power of water - think about it, a hot shower, a good cry, a dive into the pool, the sound of waves crashing against the shore. They all have restorative power.<br />
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13. It's funny how over time our preferences change, but some things always stay the same. Point in case, favorite colors. A change: As a child green was my least favorite color, now it's one of my very favorite. An always stays the same: Pink has and always will be a favorite ("Pink is my signature color." Name that quote, from one of my all time favorite movies, <i>Steel Magnolias </i>- I have the fondest memories of watching that movie again and again curled up in bed with my mom.)<br />
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14. Tonight we are headed to <a href="http://www.heritagerva.com/">Heritage</a> for my birthday dinner. It is one of my favorite Richmond restaurants, and I've celebrated 3 or 4 other birthdays there. If you go, you must order the pimiento cheese croquettes as an app! Also hoping they have the egg nog special I enjoyed on my birthday there last year.<br />
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15. Random thought--this is getting hard, and I'm only halfway done!<br />
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16. If I could change one thing in my life's path to this point, it would be my choice to go to UVA. Don't get me wrong- I received an amazing education, made some lifelong friends, and have a huge amount of school pride as well as love for Charlottesville. That said, I think I would have thrived more and been happier at a smaller school, though my 18 year old self didn't realize that.<br />
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17. Speaking of UVA, I'm most grateful to their <a href="http://womenscenter.virginia.edu/">Women's Center</a> which offers free, unlimited counseling to students. My second year was a tough one. My grandpa whom I adored died and I broke up with an abusive boyfriend all in the same month. That year I was a mess (though I excelled in school and fitness - the Type A in me tends to go crazy over the things I <i>can </i>control when life seems to be in disarray); and the Women's Center was a refuge. After that year, I continued to go back occasionally whenever I needed a "tune up" and am so glad it exists for students. Whenever I make donations to UVA, I always make them to the Women's Center in honor of Margaret, my counselor.<br />
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18. In school, I was always a math and English person, not the typical English-history or math-science. When it comes to English, y'all know I love to read and write and a huge part of my career utilizes both my oral and written communication skills. When it comes to math, I always love looking for patterns around me and geek out over data!<br />
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19. I was excited to get the chance to take the <a href="https://www.gallupstrengthscenter.com/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=Strengths_ECommerce_Brand_Search_US&utm_content=clifton%20strengthsfinder&gclid=Cj0KCQiA8_PfBRC3ARIsAOzJ2uqQkp-gqztDHUdvbMpD1vZjclS_9AMdGTf212FU9UBrw25K8lRYeV0aAtBhEALw_wcB">StrengthsFinder</a> test for work this year. My #1 strength is achiever (read more about it <a href="https://news.gallup.com/businessjournal/622/achiever.aspx">here</a>), and at first I was disappointed feeling like it was callous and all about just going, going, going. Then I read in the takeaway materials that Achievers are driven by a desire to leave the world a better place than they found it and I thought "YESSS!!!" In fact, when we were in premarital counseling and the minister asked what we saw as the purpose of life, that was my exact answer. My #2 was Strategic, #3 was Individualization, #4 was Learner, and #5 was Responsibility.<br />
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20. As I've gotten older, I've realized just how much I'd rather buy less and invest or splurge on items I really love. Sure, I still <b>love </b>a deal and finding affordable items, but the things in my closet that have really stood the test of time have been those splurges (albeit many of them I've stalked and waited to purchase on major sale, haha). Those that follow on Instagram know Bryce treated me to a Goyard bag this year for my birthday, and I told him it could count for all my gifts this entire year, and maybe even a few more birthdays if he wanted. I'd rather have one big thing than lots of little. I also decided to splurge and treat myself to <a href="https://www.ferragamo.com/shop/us/en/women/shoes/pumps-slingbacks/capua-55*-693186">these Ferragamos</a> in London for my 30th and have saved them to wear for the first time today!<br />
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21. On the flip, frivolous side, I did snag <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dcnjmz7u8e">these</a> on sale on a whim Monday to wear for my birthday and through the holidays!<br />
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22. We hosted my family for Thanksgiving this year which felt like a very grown up, almost 30, thing to do. All I could think as I prepared was just how thankful I am to have Bryce by my side. He really and truly is a partner, and how many men do you know that can make homemade yeast rolls, garden like nobody's business; <i>and </i>hunt ducks and do manly things?<br />
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23. One steadfast supporter and friend throughout my 20s has been my friend Maddie. We actually first "met" through blogging. She and I are the same age (literally...she turned 30 this month, too) and both started blogs right around the same time. Somehow along the way we became email pen pals and every few months would send each other massive emails updating each other on all aspects of our life, as well as sharing lots of deep, philosophical thoughts about the various phases we were in. When one of her emails would hit my inbox, I'd drop everything to read it and then let it all soak in and respond a few months later. She moved to DC about a year ago, and our pen pal days have stopped because we are now real life friends and have visited each other 3 or 4 times in the last year.<br />
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24. Speaking of supportive friends, one of the best lessons I've learned in the last decade was from my best friend, Angela. When I was grappling with the decision of whether or not to leave teaching she said to me "You can keep teaching and know you'll be miserable, or you can try something else and take a chance at being happy." I've thought of that advice so many times over the years since she shared it. Don't ever let the fear of the unknown hold you back from trying something that could be great, wonderful, amazing!<br />
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25. Millie is the light of my life. I never knew how much I could love a dog, y'all! While I know kids will be an infinitely deeper love, it breaks my heart to think about Millie losing her prime spot in our life once they come along. We regularly call Millie "baby" so much that she looks up when she hears it, so she's going to be so confused when a real human baby comes along. I even recently told Bryce, when we have a baby, we need to make sure to occasionally leave the baby in the crib so Millie can have Saturday morning snuggles in bed.<br />
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26. I'm so glad to be entering 30 in the best shape of my life. I've caught the running bug this fall and can't believe I now run around 5 miles on a "typical" run and have done up to 8 miles on a few long runs. What I've loved about running consistently and at longer distances, is that it's allowed me more balance in my diet. I tend to eat pretty healthy, but running has allowed me to indulge my sweet tooth more frequently while continuing to see the number on the scale go down! I also love that with running, you can really track your progress and set goals surrounding speed, distance, etc...must be that "Achiever" in me wanting to check off the next goal.<br />
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27. Speaking of fitness, I'm so glad that I'm also entering my 30th year as a barre instructor! I've loved barre since I started taking it in 2014 and have enjoyed getting to know the instructors I've admired for so long more closely. If you're local, come join me bright and early at <a href="https://www.barreva.com/">BarReVA</a> at 6 am on Tuesdays!<br />
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28. I hate that our world has become so polarized and hope to see that change over the next decade. When I think back to my education, the most pivotal moments are the ones that challenged me to think differently, see something from another perspective, and even sometimes be persuaded to change my opinion.<br />
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29. In terms of the world today, one of my all time favorite quotes is a Dalai Lama one: "My religion is very simple. My religion is kindness." Yes, I realize there are really really big problems in the world (too many of them), but I do strongly believe in the power of people and that a smile and kindness can go a long way toward achieving a better world.<br />
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30. This blog means so much to me and I love the community in you. While my posting frequency has waxed and waned throughout the years, and I do admittedly miss the "old" blogging days, I hope that the blog will live on through my 30s and all to come.<br />
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Whew! Did any of you make it to the end?<br />
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Many of you asked on Instagram for day to day lifestyle posts like these, so I hope this didn't bore or disappoint.<br />
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If you did make it here, can you relate to any of my thoughts?<br />
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What have been some of your reflections as you've hit milestone birthdays?<br />
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Have a great day!Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-5884436356319991462018-11-21T10:00:00.000-05:002018-11-26T20:04:37.616-05:002018 Holiday Gift Guide: GENTS<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
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I am busy busy over here! As mentioned, we are hosting my family for Thanksgiving tomorrow, so preparations are in full swing</div>
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I am so glad that you are enjoying the gift guides. </div>
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If you haven't yet, check out the ladies <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2018/11/2018-holiday-gift-guide-ladies.html">here</a>.</div>
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A few notes, before we start. I noticed that last year's guides have gotten some traffic since I posted yesterday. Though I can't guarantee things in those guides will still be in stock or that links will work, they can be accessed <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2017/11/holiday-gift-guide-ladies.html">here</a> for ladies and <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2017/11/holiday-gift-guide-gents.html">here</a> for gents if you want some inspiration. (Hint: if you see an item from last year's gift guide that was repeated again this year that means I <b>really</b> love it!) I've also now set up the <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/p/shopt-with-me.html">"SHOP"</a> tab at the top of my blog to populate with all the items I've saved for Gift Guides, so you'll see there many items I loved but didn't make the cut. I'll continue to add to it throughout the season.</div>
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So without further adieu, let's dive into the Gents! As always, Bryce is the inspiration here. This year, though, we took it up a notch and Bryce wrote me a long list of things he loves that have been included. He's really disappointed, however, that I did not include this <i><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbzxnk7u8e">Churchill </a></i>biography (under $15), so if your boyfriend/dad/husband/brother is a history buff check it out!</div>
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Again, today, many of these links are affiliate links, meaning I earn a small commission if you click and a purchase is made. And also again today, I've included comments below with more details about all 31 items, including promo codes for everything that's on sale (including a promo code JUST for Alexandra Bee Blog readers for the cuff links).</div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxfug7u8e">monogrammed leather catchall</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbzzcg7u8e">sunglasses</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db2u6h7u8e">cigar case</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbz5uy7u8e">lab ornament</a> / </div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbz4t47u8e">needlepoint hat</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db2vf57u8e">charging carabiner</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbwex87u8e">chef's knife</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbz6vu7u8e">driving mocs</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbz7p67u8e">party animal tie</a> / </div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxgu87u8e">old glory blanket</a> / <a href="https://yorkrivertraders.com/collections/drink-coasters/products/custom-nautical-chart-coasters-set-of-4">custom nautical coasters</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db2vsp7u8e">cologne</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbz6jd7u8e">kanvus jean</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbz66y7u8e">fleece vest</a> /</div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbda387u8e">facial fuel</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db2ru47u8e">hunter's tote bag</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbz7887u8e">adventure chronograph</a> / <a href="https://yorkrivertraders.com/collections/cufflinks/products/pheasant-feather-cufflinks-and-black-tie-studs">cuff links</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dckmjk7u8e">dot socks</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db2uvq7u8e">head lamp</a> /</div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbwbxd7u8e">tervis old fashioned glass</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbdc9i7u8e">leather sunglass strap</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db2uce7u8e">hot pepper bacon jam</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbzxvy7u8e">griptilian knife</a> /</div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db3u347u8e">frostpak soft cooler</a> / <i><a href="http://hog%20dressing%2C%20log%20cabin%20building%2C%20mountain%20crafts%20and%20foods%2C%20planting%20by%20the%20signs/">Foxfire</a> </i>/ <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbc9tb7u8e">hot sauce kit</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbz7ur7u8e">dopp kit</a> / <a href="https://blanccreatives.com/products/roastermedium">cast iron skillet</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db2ugi7u8e">working hands</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbwamf7u8e">duck boots</a></div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxfug7u8e">Monogrammed Leather Catchall</a>: </b>Bryce has a similar square version in a dark brown he keeps on his dresser, but I am loving the look of this "baseball leather" and shape and size; similar to <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbs7zj7u8e">the tray</a> I posted in the ladies guide yesterday, this catchall can make a collection of items (spare change, collar stays, etc) look tidy; 20% off + free shipping with code FRIENDS</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbzzcg7u8e">Sunglasses</a>: </b>these are a splurge item, but so well made and stylish; you can see Bryce wearing them dressed up <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BmEtQQoHE_B/">here</a>, dressed down <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BleSsyFHLNT/">here</a>, and at our wedding <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BgwBhgBAB5L/">here</a>; rarely go on sale and currently 20% off putting them just under $300; they are on major sale in limited quantities <a href="https://www.persol.com/usa/0PO3164S--24-57">here</a> and <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbzzcg7u8e">here</a>; also like this similar more affordable pair at $50 <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db3myq7u8e">here</a> and this very similar pair under $100 <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db3m2j7u8e">here</a></div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db2u6h7u8e">Cigar Case</a>: </b>under $15; Bryce has a similar Dunhill cigar case and loves to have it to take to special occasions, like a wedding where he'll share a cigar with the groom; this is a more affordable option and would make a great stocking stuffer; the alligator print is so chic</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbz5uy7u8e">Lab Ornament</a>: </b>under $10; we have this exact ornament for our tree; dogs are called man's best friend for a reason, so gift a dog ornament</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbz4t47u8e">Needlepoint Hat</a>: </b>appeal to his wild <i>and </i>preppy side with a jolly roger needlepoint hat; Bryce has <a href="https://smathersandbranson.com/product/dancing-bear-needlepoint-hat-stone">this one</a>, but since not every man is a Deadhead, I chose the jolly roger for the guide; there are options sure to please every man on your list <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db3n477u8e">here</a>, though!</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db2vf57u8e">Charging Carabiner</a>: </b>this tool is so handy; throw it on a backpack or use it carry your keys and always have a phone charger at hand; 20% off (and under $25) with code FRIENDS</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbwex87u8e">Chef's Knife</a>: </b>repeat alert!; this knife is a splurge, but <i>the best</i>; it is my favorite knife we own and according to Bryce it's all about the Damascus blade; cheers to a gift that will get your man in the kitchen; get it while it's on sale!<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbz6vu7u8e">Driving Mocs</a>: </b>get them while they're on sale for under $100; every man should have a pair of driving mocs in his wardrobe; they're stylish and comfy; love that Cole Haan is high on style with an approachable price point; I gifted Bryce this crocodile pair for his birthday that are on sale for under $65 and available in limited sizes <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db3zdh7u8e">here</a> </div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbz7p67u8e">Party Animal Tie</a>: </b>because every guy needs a Christmas tie; up to 30% off with code GOWILD</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxgu87u8e">Old Glory Blanket</a>: </b>for the patriot in your life that needs a housewarming...literally; more of a splurge, but currently on sale; similar under $40 <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db3p2u7u8e">here</a></div>
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<b><a href="https://yorkrivertraders.com/collections/drink-coasters/products/custom-nautical-chart-coasters-set-of-4">Custom Nautical Coasters</a>: </b>these make a truly one of a kind gift; made to order - you provide custom chart location(s); brass hardware and green felt on the bottom to protect your table; great price point for such a personalized keepsake</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db2vsp7u8e">Cologne</a>: </b>Bryce has used this John Varvatos cologne since before we met and it has such a clean and masculine scent</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbz6jd7u8e">Kanvus Jean</a>: </b>Bryce discovered these this fall and they are a new favorite; they're much softer and I'd say more chino like than a jean; a bit utilitarian/outdoorsy; come in several colors (Bryce has both the gray and khaki); they can be dressed up with a button down (<a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db3qpb7u8e">B's fave</a>) and loafers or dressed down with a fishing shirt (<a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db3qr67u8e">B's fave</a>) and boots; Bryce prefers the relaxed fit and finds them to be true to size</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbz66y7u8e">Fleece Vest</a>: </b>Bryce wears this at least 3 times a week all fall and winter; comes in 3 colors; he also has a Retro-X version (loving that one in camo <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbz68s7u8e">here</a>), but prefers this one as it's lighter weight and less bulky, meaning it also packs well when traveling, bonus it's also less expensive than the Retro-X and under $100</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbda387u8e">Facial Fuel</a>: </b>repeat alert!; under $30; this facial fuel is a light moisturizer and is especially great for the cold winter months when skin dries out</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db2ru47u8e">Hunter's Tote Bag</a>: </b>repeat alert!; Bryce was gifted one of these as a groomsman gift last summer and uses it almost exclusively now for travel; it holds SO much and I love that it zips shut and has a strap with padding to carry on your shoulder; Bryce has it in the extra large which is just $55, plus you earn a $10 gift card with any purchase over $50</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbz7887u8e">Adventure Chronograph</a>: </b>love how this orange watch really pops; nylon band ensures it is durable; perfect for the man with an adventurous spirit and bold personality</div>
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<b><a href="https://yorkrivertraders.com/collections/cufflinks/products/pheasant-feather-cufflinks-and-black-tie-studs">Pheasant Feather Cufflinks</a>: </b>I gifted Bryce these cufflinks with matching studs for Christmas a few years ago (remember <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/wmdUlhFvn9/">this post</a>?); simply said, they're stunning; made with real pheasant feathers; all York River Traders products have impeccable quality and detail (I've loved partnering with them in the past) and today is your lucky day because Alexandra Bee readers get them for 25% off with code BeeBlog through this Saturday 11/24</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dckmjk7u8e">Dot Socks</a>: </b>I always gift Bryce at least one pair of J. Crew socks in his stocking and this might be the pair this year, love the dots; 40% off (putting them under $10) with code TOGETHER</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db2uvq7u8e">Head Lamp</a>: </b>under $30; I don't know how many headlamps Bryce has laying around the house, but they sure do come in handy and Petzl are the best</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbwbxd7u8e">Tervis Old Fashioned Glass</a>: </b>Tervis tumblers are the best, amirite?; we love the 12-oz old fashioned size for cocktails, especially in the summertime; couldn't resist the Virginia blue crab; set of 4 for under $50</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbdc9i7u8e">Leather Sunglass Strap</a>: </b>every Southern gent needs a sunglass strap and this leather one is on point; up to 30% off with code GOWILD; Bryce has and loves <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/cum8977u8e">these</a> which I featured in my gift guide last year (not so stylish, but under $15 and functional)</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db2uce7u8e">Hot Pepper Bacon Jam</a>: </b>the way to a man's heart is through his stomach; we were just drooling over this jam yesterday at Fresh Market while choosing jam to serve with our baked brie</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbzxvy7u8e">Griptilian Knife</a>: </b>this knife was on the list Bryce gave me, when I just asked him what comments I should add he said "Well, it's made by Benchmade which is made in the USA and they're just tough. I carry mine every day."; comes in 8 colors (Bryce has the plain edge silver)</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db3u347u8e">FrostPak Soft Cooler</a>: </b>under $50; we love this cooler!; Bryce has the 12 quart (pictured above) in blue; it's lightweight and perfect for a day on the boat, taking beer or food to a friend's house for dinner, etc; we've checked out the Yeti soft coolers and just don't get the hype, plus they get so heavy; the 12 quart size is convenient and manageable; Bryce also was gifted <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbzyw47u8e">this soft cooler</a> last year by his boss and recommends it- it's a bit more heavy duty and stylish (less dad-ish, haha), but also more pricey</div>
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<i style="font-weight: bold;"><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbdaui7u8e">Foxfire</a>: </i>this book is a classic (my dad gifted Bryce his vintage set); the long title is <i>Foxfire: Hog Dressing, Log Cabin Building, Mountain Crafts and Foods, Planting by the Signs</i>...ie: all the man things; and if you really want to splurge you can get the full 14-book <i>Foxfire </i>series <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db3vuj7u8e">here</a></div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbc9tb7u8e">Hot Sauce Kit</a>: </b>under $50; Bryce has been on a hot sauce making kick lately after having quite the pepper harvest this year; this kit simplifies the process and would make the perfect gift for any man that need a little spice in his life</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbz7ur7u8e">Dopp Kit</a>: </b>Bryce is a huge fan of Filson products; they're made in the USA and the quality is top notch; this dopp kit is nylon which makes it both easier to clean and more affordable; speaking of Filson, I ran out of room to feature <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbwa6e7u8e">this log carrier</a> I gave Bryce for Christmas several years ago that he loves </div>
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<b><a href="https://blanccreatives.com/products/roastermedium">Cast Iron Skillet</a>: </b>this is a major splurge item, but worth sharing; Bryce has this "roaster" pictured above and <a href="https://blanccreatives.com/products/skilletlarge">this skillet</a> and prefers the roaster I've featured in the guide; they're handcrafted locally in Charlottesville, Virginia; if that price point feels too high, <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxfze7u8e">this Staub skillet</a> is great at a mid-range under $100 point, and you can't go wrong with <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db3wu87u8e">a Lodge skillet</a> for under $30 either</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db2ugi7u8e">Working Hands</a>: </b>because men need soft hands, too; would make a great stocking stuffer; Bryce swears by this stuff and if you don't trust him, trust the 6,802 5 star reviews</div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbwamf7u8e">Duck Boots</a>: </b>Bryce has two pairs of these without the shearling lining (which they don't seem to make anymore) and actually prefers this buckle style to the more popular lace up style; they're more comfortable and easier to slip on and off; a classic that will never go out of style or usefulness; do run slightly large order a half size down</div>
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Have a happy Thanksgiving!</div>
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Today is my Friday and I am so excited for Thanksgiving break.</div>
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We are hosting my family for Thanksgiving this year and I am glad to have the extra day to prepare. </div>
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I'm excited to bring you my Ladies Gift Guide today. I always have so much fun putting these together and was glad to hear from so many of you on Instagram that you love shopping them. This year, I'm adding a new feature. As always, all items will be linked below the guide, but at the bottom, I'll have notes about each item (promo codes; why I chose it, personal experience with products I own, etc), so if there's something you have your eye on, be sure to scroll down for more details and to see if it's on sale. </div>
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And for those of you that told me you always find your man's gifts on my guides, Gents is coming tomorrow!</div>
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Many of these items are under $100 and many already on sale as Black Friday seems to now be a whole "Black Week." </div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbdbvw7u8e">leopard booties</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbwdqa7u8e">rose face cream</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbyh7f7u8e">pearl ring</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbs72r7u8e">leopard ornament</a> /</div>
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<i><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbc9he7u8e">Dream Design Live</a> </i>/ <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxi2h7u8e">bow back sweater</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbdakg7u8e">hoops</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxkbw7u8e">overnight peel</a> / </div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbdbxw7u8e">pink scarf</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbyjmq7u8e">wavy bowl</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbdcie7u8e">sunglasses</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbyj2f7u8e">leather leggings</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbs7zj7u8e">tray</a> / <a href="https://shop.linneaslights.com/collections/reserve/products/reserve-by-ll-earl-grey">candle </a>/</div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbykym7u8e">champagne ornament </a>/ <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxjtj7u8e">olive vest</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxijf7u8e">crossbody bag</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxkuz7u8e">lip balm</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxnku7u8e">lip gloss</a> / <i><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbdajd7u8e">Southern Appetizers</a> </i>/</div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxiu77u8e">cashmere throw</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbwckj7u8e">mocassin slippers</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxrsf7u8e">nail polish</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxp8j7u8e">tan towels</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxfgj7u8e">champagne key ring </a>/</div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbv8na7u8e">cashmere tech gloves</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db639d7u8e">keepsake cutting board</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxqc67u8e">pearl cluster earrings</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxfqu7u8e">y'all socks</a> /</div>
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<a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxe6a7u8e">oyster dish</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/danm7u7u8e">garden stool</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxu9c7u8e">crossover cuff</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxtva7u8e">pajamas</a> / <a href="https://www.toryburch.com/signature-eau-de-parfum-rollerball/591901.html?dwvar_591901_color=000&utm_medium=aff&utm_source=cj&utm_campaign=rewardStyle&utm_content=10926803&utm_term=2975314&cjevent=4137b4dcecd411e8814700e90a240611">perfume roller</a> / <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbs7rv7u8e">pink velvet pumps</a></div>
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<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbdbvw7u8e">Leopard Booties</a>: </b>booties are a go-to fall through winter and these might be top of my personal Christmas list; also come in a fun star print and solid leather options; Boden is known for quality and you can get these for 30% of with code V4N9<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbwdqa7u8e">Rose Face Cream</a>: </b>I recently received a sample of this and it lasted me about a week- in that time, my face became so incredibly smooth, so as soon as I run out of my daily moisturizer, I plan to replace it with this one; it has a lovely rose scent and feels very decadent on so would be great for someone on your list who could use some pampering; a little pricey, but there's also a gift set featuring it <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbyhzn7u8e">here</a> that you can get for under $50 with code BEAUTY20<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbyh7f7u8e">Pearl Ring</a>:</b> I have been swooning over this since I found it for the gift guides and might just have to order it for myself; it feels very <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbyh997u8e">Julie Vos</a>, but is under $50!<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbs72r7u8e">Leopard Ornament</a>: </b>I love this little guy and ornaments can make fun gifts or even look great tied on the outside of a present with your gift tag and bow; what's even better is he's chic enough to stay out year-round long after the tree is gone; 20% off with code HOME<br />
<b><i><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbc9he7u8e">Dream Design Live</a></i>: </b>under $25 and another personal wish list item; you may remember I mentioned it in <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2018/09/5-design-coffee-table-books-on-my-wish.html">this post</a>; I've flipped through this book in Barnes & Noble and have a major design crush on its author <a href="https://www.instagram.com/palomacontrerasdesign/?hl=en">Paloma Contreras</a><br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxi2h7u8e">Bow Back Sweater</a>: </b>on sale for under $50; must see the back of this sweater; it was one of my very favorite purchases last winter so I'm thrilled it's been restocked<b> </b>and you can see it styled on my Insta <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BetdHoQl5j4/">here</a>; it does run large (mine is petite XS and still roomy enough to be cozy or layered over a button down)<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbdakg7u8e">Hoops</a>: </b>currently on sale with free shipping; I've seen these in person in a local boutique and <i>love</i>; they make a statement while still being subtle enough for daytime wear; and if you really want to splurge and spoil a special lady with hoops, you can get <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbyizs7u8e">these</a> which are a staple in my wardrobe that I wear at least 3 times a week<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxkbw7u8e">Overnight Peel</a>: </b>I started using this peel about 3 weeks ago and holy moly, y'all: what a transformation in my skin!; you've even been commenting on Insta and asking for a skincare post- it's coming - but in the meantime, get this; I use it nightly; if you don't believe me check the 1,183 5 star reviews and snag it while it's on sale for under $50 (from <a href="https://www.beautycounter.com/kathleenbaker/contact">Kathleen Baker</a>, if you don't have your own consultant)<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbdbxw7u8e">Pink Scarf</a>: </b>okay, I'm ordering this- it's on sale for $10...I may order 10 and get them for all my friends; love that the pink is versatile for post-holiday wear (hello, Valentine's Day!), but it also comes in 4 other colorways including a tartan that screams Christmas!<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbyjmq7u8e">Wavy Bowl</a>: </b>I'm a big fan of Susan Gordon Pottery and these wavy bowls; they are stunning and I've gifted them to others before; bonus points for supporting a female small business owner!<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbdcie7u8e">Sunglasses</a>: </b>there's just something so glamorous about a big pair of tortoise shell sunglasses; I've been eyeing (pun intended) a pair of Karen Walkers for years, and one of my faves <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BhDH0lyDid5/">Katie Chalk</a> wears these so well; these hardly ever go on sale so snag them now for up to 25% off with code MORE18<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbyj2f7u8e">Leather Leggings</a>: </b>these were a favorite of yours and mine last year and for good reason; they're high waisted and suck you in in all the right places; if between sizes, I recommend sizing up; I wear a medium; I recently learned they come in a <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbyj8r7u8e">maternity version</a> for any readers who are expecting and a friend who is due in late December was raving about them, and you can get them up to 25% off <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbyj6k7u8e">here </a>with code MORE18<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbs7zj7u8e">Tray</a>: </b>trays are one of my favorite design elements because they can make a table look pulled together; also love them for entertaining; natural fibers ground a space, but I love that this one takes the design to the next level by modernizing the rattan with acrylic; 20% off with code HOME<br />
<b><a href="https://shop.linneaslights.com/collections/reserve/products/reserve-by-ll-earl-grey">Candle</a>:</b> under $50; I'm really picky when it comes to candles; I don't like anything strong or fruity; I prefer crisp, clean scents and this one is amazing, y'all; I had it burning when I hosted <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BqLExeMlHPY/">barReVA Friendsgiving </a>last week everyone was asking where I got it!<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbykym7u8e">Champagne Ornament</a>: </b>under $15; another fun ornament for any ladies with an effervescent personality; this one, too, can stay out on the bar cart through New Years and past the holidays<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxjtj7u8e">Olive Vest</a>: </b>this fleece lined vest can be dressed up with a blouse or down with athleisure gear; it is made to be a Barbour liner, but doubles as a vest; if you want to purchase as a liner, purchase in the same size as your Barbour coat; if you want to purchase as a vest, I recommend sizing up one size; up to 30% off with code GOWILD<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxijf7u8e">Crossbody Bag</a>: </b>I have this in navy and it may have been my best purchase of the year; it is big enough to hold a wallet, keys, phone, and more, but still sleek; I used it during our entire England trip; the strap is removable so it can be worn as a clutch or crossbody; dressed <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BnLTRK8lVd5/">up</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/Bm_z1UjHoPh/">down</a>; since getting my Goyard, I keep mine in my bag with my wallet in it at all times, so I can just slip it out if I don't want to carry my big tote somewhere; Gigi New York always has amazing sales, so I'd watch this over the next few days leading up to Black Friday<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxkuz7u8e">Lip Balm</a>: </b>under $10; this Mint Rose balm is my absolute favorite; I've been using it for probably 10 years now and always have a <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxkwc7u8e">jar</a> on my bedside table and a tube in my bag so I'm not using germy fingers when out and about; would make a perfect stocking stuffer or teacher gift paired with some nice hand lotion and a candle<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxnku7u8e">Lip Gloss</a>: </b>I actually wore this lip gloss at my wedding in the "Giza" shade; it can be worn as a gloss alone, but I love it most layered over lipstick, particularly red lipstick<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbdajd7u8e">Southern Appetizers</a>: </b>under $15; I came across this book in a Norfolk boutique and added it to my wish list; it is filled with recipes for favorite Southern appetizers, but the recipes are divided into sections focused on a party theme so the book does double duty as a cookbook and party guide<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxiu77u8e">Cashmere Throw</a>: </b>comes in 10 colors!; perfect for the friend who has everything; more of a splurge, but 40% off with code TOGETHER<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbwckj7u8e">Mocassin Slippers</a>: </b>I've had these (in the color pictured) now for 6 years and absolutely love them; come in 7 colors and an animal print <a href="https://www.garnethill.com/ugg-26-23174-3b-ansley-slippers/506348?listIndex=1">here</a>; come so cozy, water resistant and have a rubber sole so they can be worn outside; I often slip them on when I'm headed to the barre studio at 0 dark 30 to teach 6:00 am class; run large, order one full size down; also love <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbyn957u8e">this more affordable monogrammed version</a> (just over $25 with code NOVEMBER 40)<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxrsf7u8e">Nail Polish</a>: </b>this shade "No More Film" might be my very favorite nail polish; it's almost black, but has a subtle navy/purple tint to it; I always get compliments on it; perfect as a stocking stuffer or bundled with other beauty gifts<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxp8j7u8e">Tan Towels</a>: </b>another great beauty stocking stuffer; my favorite way to get a faux glow; perfect for your friend who dreams of tropical places during the cold, pale winter months<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxfgj7u8e">Champagne Key Ring</a>: </b>this "Press for Champagne" key ring is too cute and again, would be a great stocking stuffer; I also think it could be a fun white elephant gift; attach it to a bow tied around a bottle of your favorite bubbly!; 10% off with code SHOPSMALL10<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbv8na7u8e">Cashmere Tech Gloves</a>: </b>for your friend who's always gramming, texting, emailing - ensure her fingers stay toasty all winter; come in 9 colors; 50% off TODAY 11/20 (putting them under $30) with code GOLDENDEAL<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/db639d7u8e">Keepsake Cutting Board</a>: </b>what a keepsake!; submit an image of an heirloom family recipe and have it engraved on this board; would be perfect for a newlywed; order by December 8 for Christmas guarantee; 15% off (making it under $150) with code SHOPSMALL15<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxqc67u8e">Pearl Cluster Earrings</a>: </b>these were actually my wedding earrings! - see <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BjYSDx9gtSr/">here</a>; I've gotten asked for a source a few times, so knew y'all would love them; what's great is they look equally cute dressed down as they do up, and I love wearing them on special occasions (like my 30th birthday party this past weekend); 40% off (putting them just over $40) with code TOGETHER<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxfqu7u8e">Y'all Socks</a>: </b>just $15; perfect for the friend you can have yoga pant wine nights with; socks make the perfect stocking stuffer, too; 10% off with code SHOPSMALL10<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxe6a7u8e">Oyster Dish</a>: </b>I received this oyster dish as a wedding present and it is a stunner; it can be used for entertaining or would be equally useful on a nightstand for jewelry; aluminum so it never tarnishes; I also have <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxshi7u8e">the medium</a> and the small can nest inside the corner which is great for serving dips with raw veggies, etc<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/danm7u7u8e">Garden Stool</a>: </b>I have one of these in our dining room and am thinking of getting it a mate; makes a great little side table, too; if you're local check out Three Swallows in Norfolk to get one, and other blue and white finds, for a steal!<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxu9c7u8e">Crossover Cuff</a>: </b>I've had this cuff for 3 or 4 years now and love it; it is delicate and elegant and can also be stacked with other bracelets; also comes in rose gold <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbyrde7u8e">here</a><br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbxtva7u8e">Pajamas</a>: </b>on sale for under $50; pajamas are one of my favorite gifts to receive; love the colors and "sweet dreams" detail on these; I don't have them, but have found other J. Crew pajamas to run true to size<br />
<b><a href="https://www.toryburch.com/signature-eau-de-parfum-rollerball/591901.html?dwvar_591901_color=000&utm_medium=aff&utm_source=cj&utm_campaign=rewardStyle&utm_content=10926803&utm_term=2975314&cjevent=4137b4dcecd411e8814700e90a240611">Perfume Roller</a>: </b>just $30; this is my favorite perfume that I've been wearing now for probably 5 years; the roller is great for travel and I always keep it in my purse; nothing like some perfume and red lipstick for a boost; awesome stocking stuffer<br />
<b><a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dbs7rv7u8e">Pink Velvet Pumps</a>: </b>vavavoom!; perfect for the glam girl who has everything; pink - check; velvet - check; pearls - check<br />
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Have you started your holiday shopping yet?<br />
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Who's on your gift list?<br />
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Who do you find the toughest to shop for?<br />
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And for fun, what's on YOUR wish list?<br />
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Happy shopping!Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-44843439298959258632018-11-09T08:30:00.000-05:002018-11-09T08:30:07.140-05:00Lemon Chicken Orzo SoupTGIF readers!<br />
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What a week it has been here!<br />
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I came down with a cold Sunday, had to travel for work Tuesday-Wednesday, took a sick day yesterday, and am finally feeling on the mend today! On top of that, Bryce and I have been ships in the night. He left Sunday morning for a conference, got home Tuesday (while I was traveling), we had Wednesday night together, and then he packed up again yesterday to head to South Carolina for a work shoot. He'll be back late tomorrow night.<br />
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I had promised my "Must Have Vests" post this week, and had planned to take photos and write that post on Sunday but was feeling too crummy. I always get requests for more recipe posts, though, so hopefully today won't disappoint.<br />
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Aside from bingeing <i>The Affair</i> (still can't decide if I like it or not) and snuggling Millie, the only thing I accomplished on Sunday was making a big pot of soup. Nothing brings comfort during a cold like chicken noodle soup and this Lemon Chicken Orzo Soup is the perfect spin on the classic. The original recipe was found on <a href="http://www.goodlifeeats.com/lemon-chicken-spinach-and-orzo-soup/">Good Life Eats</a> and I'm sharing my slightly modified version below.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Lemon Chicken Orzo Soup</span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;">Serves 4-6</span><br />
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<b>For the chicken:</b><br />
1 lb chicken <i>(I used chicken breast tenderloins)</i><br />
half of a lemon, sliced<br />
handful of fresh parsley<br />
2 bay leaves<br />
1 c water<br />
1/2 c chicken broth<br />
salt<br />
pepper<br />
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<b>For the soup:</b><br />
1 tbs olive oil<br />
1 onion, diced<br />
4 cloves garlic<br />
1/3 c white wine<br />
3 carrots, sliced into rounds<br />
7 1/2 c chicken broth<br />
3/4 c orzo pasta, uncooked<br />
3 egg yolks<br />
3 tbs fresh lemon juice<br />
2 tbs fresh parsley, minced<br />
2-3 large handfuls of baby spinach, chopped<br />
salt<br />
pepper<br />
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<u>Directions</u><br />
<b>For the chicken:</b><br />
Combine all ingredients in pot on stovetop. Bring to a boil and cook for 8 minutes.<br />
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Remove from heat, drain, and shred (<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DebL1gUXGMc">this trick</a> is life changing).<br />
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Set aside.<br />
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<b>For the soup:</b><br />
Add 1 tbs olive oil into large dutch oven. Saute the onion over medium-high heat until golden and tender. Add the garlic and saute for 1 minute more.<br />
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Add the white wine and cook for 2 minutes. Stir in the broth and carrot. Bring to a boil. Meanwhile, whisk the egg yolks and lemon together. Add 1 cup of hot broth from the dutch oven very slowly to the egg yolk mixture, whisking as you pour. Then, transfer the mixture to the dutch oven. Stir in the orzo and the chicken.<br />
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Continue cooking over medium-low heat until the pasta and carrots are tender, 15-20 minutes. Add the parsley and spinach, and stir until wilted, 1-2 minutes. Season with salt and pepper.<br />
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Enjoy!<br />
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This soup was just what the doctor ordered! I ate it for dinner that night, shared some with my mother-in-law who watched Millie while Bryce and I both were traveling, and froze the rest for us to eat for dinner another night soon. In fact, making soup on Sundays has become a bit of a tradition this year. It's so comforting for a Sunday night, and perfect to freeze for a simple meal later.<br />
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Have a great weekend!Alexandra Bee Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1599889320732403400.post-65485438024474015692018-11-01T08:30:00.000-04:002018-11-01T08:30:03.178-04:0030th Birthday InspirationHappy November friends!<br />
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I can't believe November, and <b>my birthday month (!)</b>, is already here!<br />
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This week has been a crazy one so I knew I wouldn't have time for a big post and polled y'all on <a href="http://instagram.com/alexandrabeeblog">Instagram</a> to see what you'd rather see: Must Have Vests or 30th BDay Inspo.<br />
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Birthday Inspiration won with 59% of the vote, so I'm posting that today and will get to vests next week.<br />
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November 28 is my 30th birthday and believe it or not I am really excited about turning 30. While I have felt a little old here and there (hello forehead wrinkles!) and went back to a blonder shade during my last hair appointment, perhaps in an effort to cling to my youth, I overall can't wait to be the big 3-0. I've always thought my 30s would be my best decade. Bryce and I are in a great place and have settled into married life, my career is in a place I actually didn't anticipate even reaching before 30, and finally, we have our sweet Millie baby with plans to grow our family even more at some point during my early 30s. So, yeah, 30 is looking good!<br />
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Being a milestone birthday, I'm thrilled to report that my mother-in-law is hosting a 30th birthday party for me! I haven't had a true birthday party since my Sweet 16 surprise party, so this should be fun!<br />
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In an effort to guide her planning, RoseMarie, my mother-in-law requested some ideas and inspiration and pulling together a <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/alexbeeblog/30th-birthday/">Pinterest board</a> for her made me even more excited. I'll share the overall vision with you here.<br />
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The theme is a little Kate Spade-ish, with black and white stripes, gold, and varying shades of pink and red. I also decided some zebras needed to be thrown into the mix and lots of bubbly.<br />
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Here's a proof of the invitation that hit mailboxes a week or so ago:<br />
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It will be a traditional cocktail party with heavy hors d'oeuvres. My mother-in-law even has bought a bunch of ramekins to make my favorite Pasta in the Pink (recipe coming soon) to be passed! </div>
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Those that have been following along for a while, know how much I love the iconic Scalamandre zebras (anyone remember <a href="http://www.alexandrabeeblog.com/2013/01/zany-for-zebra.html">this post</a> from almost 6 years ago?). When thinking of a party, though, zebra print runs the risk of getting tacky really quick. That said, classic <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/daznt77u8e">Scalamandre cocktail napkins</a> add a subtle and chic pop of zebra, don't you think? </div>
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Finally, on the docket, and of top priority for the evening, is my birthday suit...jumpsuit, that is! </div>
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I scored <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dazpjn7u8e">this jumpsuit</a> on mega sale a couple of weeks ago! It's price has since been marked up a bit, but it's still heavily discounted, and also available at less of a discount, but in more sizes <a href="https://rstyle.me/n/dazpm47u8e">here</a>. If you do order, know it runs small! I am a typically a 4, sometimes 6, and the 6 was a bit more snug than I'd like. I've exchanged an am waiting for the 8 to arrive and am really hoping it fits nicely. </div>
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See the full Pinterest board, including many other swoon-worthy cakes and fun details, <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/alexbeeblog/30th-birthday/">here</a>.</div>
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So what do you think? </div>
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Any details I'm missing or recommendations?</div>
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How do you celebrate milestone birthdays?</div>
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Have a great day first day of November!</div>
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